Submitted by Judy McKelvey, September 2025 (One of a series of articles about the history of South Beach and its families)
The McKelvey Family Saga: South Beach Gimli 1948-2024
How it began: In 1948 the McKelvey family purchased in South Beach, Gimli a portion of what was Camp Sparling, one of the fresh air camps along the west coast of Lake Winnipeg. Grandma Margaret McKelvey, Matron of the Camp, learned that the property was coming for sale because the property was seriously being eroded by the lake. Her children and their spouses (Bob and Cay McKelvey, Howard and Alice McKelvey, Harry and Myrtle Beally, Ed and Bea Shute, and Norm and Elinor Norrie) decided to purchase a portion of the camp. All of the original McKelvey members who purchased the property are gone, as are some of their offspring, but at the present time Dan and Diane McKelvey and Judy McKelvey own 2 of the original lots. Dan and Judy spent all their summers here as kids along with all their McKelvey cousins and Dan and Dianne carried on that tradition with their family. Dan and Diane are now permanent residents of South Beach along with two of their adult children and their families. Judy spends all her summers in South Beach and until his sudden passing in December 2024, her husband Laurie Beachell had been spending summers here with the McKelveys since 1977.
In 1948 a letter was sent to the Church owners of the camp [the United Church of Canada] offering to purchase a portion of the lakefront land and the buildings on the land. The offer of $1250 was made and accepted. Thus began the McKelvey saga in South Beach.
The first few summers the families lived in the old camp dormitories. The family divided the lakefront property into 5 equal lots of 52 feet frontage. The dorms were torn down, and the lumber was used to build 6 cottages, one for each of the children and one for the grandparents. Ever a thrifty group we have been told that Grandpa William McKelvey’s task was to straighten the nails so they could be used again.
Neighbour, Miss Hazelwood’s cottage ca. 1945-50s
Why document this story now? Most of the children of the original South Beach McKelveys are now in their 70’s or older and some have died. The history of the family experiences in South Beach has been for the most part shared orally over the years. Many stories were told around campfires or over the dinner table. Many stories have been told and possibly embellished, but now is the time to share what we remember so that the next generation can tell their kids about South Beach and the good and bad times had there. We all hope that some of the McKelvey offspring will continue to enjoy South Beach for many years to come.
Background on Camp Sparling (excerpts taken from Memories From the Lake by Ken Kristjanson 2015, find the entire article here.)
“Sparling was so named for a prominent Winnipeg cleric who became President of Wesley College. The CPR pushed its successful rail system to the Lake Winnipeg beaches, eventually reaching Gimli in 1906. Camp Sparling was built and began operating around 1911. The property….would have been the size of a city block…The main building was quite large. [And] was set back from the lake with a large lawn in front. The property sloped to a magnificent sand beach to the east. It would have held over 80 mothers and children in a dorm like setting. The original formula was to bring the children to the camp with their mothers. This not only helped with the care of the children but gave the mothers a break as well. The stay was 2 weeks. Every summer over 1000 children and their mothers would make the trek from the CPR station located on Center and Hwy 9 (in front of where Sobeys is now located) to the Camp at the foot of Hansson Avenue in South Beach.
Trouble was unfortunately looming for Camp Sparling. The buildings were built when the water levels were low. In the 1940”s the lake would begin to rise. Long -time South Beach residents Bob Strachan and Paul Couture remember well trying to fight the lake. Their cottages were located 3 lots in from of our property on Benedict. Many like Carters, Stachans, Coutures and others had no choice but to hook up a tractor and move the structures. Camp Sparling was too big to move. The United Church spent a great deal of money erecting a break water. To no avail. The Lake was beating against the main building. The Church gave up in 1949 and sold the little remaining property to the McKelveys, Strachans, Coutures and others. These residents, along with us and others were able, with little Government assistance, to erect a formidable sea wall and stabilize the shoreline.”
Sharing Stories: We have asked current members of the McKelvey family to share stories they have heard or experiences they have had in South Beach. These need not be long, and it is recognized that some may remember the story differently, but we are not going to quibble over who is right or wrong, we simply want people to share their memories and experience. We hope to start a family blog or a group Facebook page to post these stories.
The Biffy by Laurie Beachell: Uncle Ed Shute told me a story about blowing up the old camp biffy. The story goes that as they were taking down the old dormitory buildings, they had to take apart the cement holding tank that was under the camp biffy. To do so they travelled to Selkirk, purchased some dynamite, drove carefully back to South Beach, and used the dynamite to blow up the old cement holding tank. I trust they emptied the tank first but the phase “let the shit fly” comes to mind.
Raising the Roof by Laurie Beachell: 177 3rd Street South Beach (previously 25 Third Avenue) is the cottage owned by Judy and I. It is the only cottage remaining that was built with the lumber from tearing down the dormitories of Camp Sparling. The cottage has undergone many renovations over the years but the most extensive reno happened in 1998 when we took off the roof, the rafters, built and installed new rafters, roof and roofing and gutted the interior of the cottage and had it rewired. We would never have been able to do it without the able leadership and skill of the “old uncles”- Earl and Dan Christopherson (brothers to Alice McKelvey). The uncles both had a carpentry background, and they also were pretty set in the way things should be done. The rules were, we started work at 8:30 am, coffee at 10:30, lunch break of an hour at noon, coffee again at 3PM and we quit work at 5. No beer could be consumed until after 5pm. Our good friend Jan Burdon took on the task of organizing all the meals and cooked in a kitchen tent with some power from the neighbours. Judy and I had a group of friends who were willing to help but had little skill. We told them to come on down to the lake and bring a hammer. To keep things light we created the “dumbshit club” and every night at supper we inducted a new member of the work crew to the club for pulling the most dumbass boneheaded move that day. It was a fun 6 or 7 days and made a huge difference to the look and feel of the cottage. One of the strangest feelings was when the roof and rafters had been removed and we had dinner in the cottage and could look up and see nothing but the sky and trees. It actually made us dizzy to see the trees swaying in the wind.
A Tribute to Alice by Laurie Beachell & Judy McKelvey: We are forever thankful and amazed at the resourcefulness of Alice McKelvey. She was able to keep the cottage and property in South Beach even after her husband Howard died in 1958. She had 2 young kids -Judy and Bill, she had not worked since she got married; she took a job 2 weeks after her husband’s death with the City of Winnipeg and through diligence and determination she was able, through very tough times, to keep the cottage property and their home in Winnipeg. We have raised a glass many times in her memory and give thanks for her fortitude.
Rock and Cement by Laurie Beachell: Family bonds are made from shared events and memories. But the real bonding agent of South Beach are rocks and cement. The reason the McKelveys got the land in South Beach was because the former owners were losing land due to erosion. Protecting the shoreline has been a focus of much of what had to be done over the years. When I first came to South Beach in 1977 the rule was if you went for a swim you had to haul 5 rocks out of the water and throw them along the shoreline. In those days field stone from Albertsons was being used but now it is huge chunks of limestone that do not move as easily by waves and ice. Days have been spent getting rock hauled in and building cement retaining walls to protect the berm built by the municipality. It is a never-ending battle to ensure that properties along the lake front are secure. We have recruited a variety of friends to help us pour cement and they may have their own stories about the abuse they received.
Submitted by Ron Harman, July 28, 2022 (One of a series of articles about the history of South Beach and its families)
The Harman family has been connected to South Beach since the early 1940’s; but their involvement with this general area of Lake Winnipeg goes back to the 1930s.
Morris Harman and wife Beth (nee Elizabeth DeWinter) purchased five lakeside lots near Sandy Hook in the early 30’s. By today’s landmarks these lots were located a few lots North of Camp Massad and south of Jimmy Doyle’s Golf Course on PTH 519. Back then, the Salvation Army had a summer camp on the lake at the east end of PTH 519.
Two lots were cleared to build a cottage, the others remained as bush. The original cottage, lot 59, which is still there today (as a house), was about 30′ by 24′ with no interior walls. Hospital type curtains divided this single area into 4 zones. Pulled back during the day to provide one large open area; pulled closed at night to provide 3 bedrooms and a zone for the kitchen. Each “bedroom” had a Davenport that was a couch during the day and converted to a double bed at night. The massive wood stove in the kitchen area was used to heat the cottage as well as for cooking. There was an outhouse and tool shed and parking for 4 or 5 cars. No running water. Drinking water was obtained from a well about a half mile south near the Polish Pioneer cemetery. Lake water was pumped up for lawns and gardens.
Morris and Beth (grandparents to Ron and Rick Harman) had 4 surviving children; Raymond, Reginald (better known as Bud), Patricia and Gerry. The two older boys assisted with constructing the cabin. Morris was a carpenter/tinsmith by trade. He owned Kildonan Sheet Metal which he operated from his house at 330 Ottawa Avenue in East Kildonan, Winnipeg.
PAT AND GRANDAD AT THE GATE OF LOT 59SANDY HOOK MORRIS HARMAN, PAT HARMAN, GLORIA STANIER JULY 1945
The level of Lake Winnipeg varied depending on the season and the wind direction. Typically it was low during the early summer. The shoreline was course gravel, not sand, that turned into mud, complete with reeds, as you went towards the lake. Cottagers would lay 2″ x 8″ planks on the muck so you could reach the water cleanly. As the water level rose, they would reposition these boards to construct rudimentary plank piers, each section about 8 feet long and 16 inches wide, held up by posts sunk in the mud. Boats had to be brought up onto shore when not in use; hauled across some 100 feet of gumbo and gravel.
Bud Harman married Isabel Murphy in 1943, and they had two boys; Ron (1944) and Rick (1946). As a family, most of our summers were spent at South Beach, in and around the Stephen compound. We would always stop at Sandy Hook on our way there to visit with our grandparents.
When Ron was young, Grandma Harman often took him to Sandy Hook for the weekend, on the pretext of giving Isabel a break. The car ride was a fabulous experience. Granddad smoked White Owl cigars; he always had 2 or 3 in his shirt pocket. The car was a big Desoto with fabric upholstery that had absorbed years of these fumes. It was like riding in a vintage humidor. We always stopped at the Half Moon (Lockport) for ice cream. The privileges of being the eldest grandchild.
During these times, Auntie Pat, who owned a wooden Peterbough with a 10 HP Johnson would take Ron into Winnipeg Beach via water; let him drive the boat and taught him how to water ski. In 1955 they went to Winnipeg Beach to watch Kathie McIntosh complete her swim across Lake Winnipeg from Grand Beach. There was a massive flotilla of boats and a huge crowd on the beach to watch her exit the water in the early evening.
Bud Harman enlisted in the RC Navy and was stationed in Victoria where Ron was born. Following the war they returned to Winnipeg. Isabel’s older sister, Grace, had married George Stephen. Their eldest son, Allan, was born a few months after Ron. Starting in 1945, Grace and Isabel, and their boys, essentially spent all their summers at South Beach. Grace and George had their own cottage, named the Baltimore; located on Hansson Ave, a couple of lots west of Evan’s store.
Judging from the early (1945) photos taken around Dorrery Lodge, clothing was optional. Anyone familiar with the use of cloth diapers and the constant laundering involved can appreciate the benefits and time-saving aspects of simply letting the boys go ‘au naturel.
RON AND ALLAN 1945, FRONT YARD OF DORRERY LODGE LOOKING TOWARDS THE FUTURE LOCATION OF RICK AND PAT HARMAN’S COTTAGE
At this time, Hansson and Ethel were through streets. They connected South Colonization Road to 3rd Avenue which ran along the shoreline (one cottage lot in). Benedict Street ran west from 3rd Avenue but came to a dead end in front of Dorrery Lodge; the Stephen compound.
Everything further west to South Colonization Road was basically forest. There was no Anna Avenue. There was a trail through the bush from the Stephen’s place to Hansson. This trail came out more or less in front of Evan’s store.
The lake access area at the east end of Benedict was referred to as First Beach; and the access at the east end of Ethel was called Second Beach. The shoreline between First and Second Beach was fairly muddy with rocks. You had to wade out into the lake if you wanted to walk from First to Second Beach along the shore. It was easier to use Third Avenue. However, shoreline from Second Beach all the way south to Willow Island was a beautiful expanse of sand. Second Beach was the more popular beach.
ISABEL AND GRACE WITH RON AND ALLAN AT FIRST BEACH
In the photo of Isabel and Grace standing with Ron and Allan (circa 1946), the view is from First Beach looking north towards Gimli. In the background you can see a wooden breakwater consisting of massive telephone-type poles drilled into the sand and bolted together. This breakwater structure remained well into the mid 1950’s. As kids, we would swim out, climb up the posts and dive into the water. We also found the remains of an old stone fireplace that was underwater just to the south of that breakwater. Obviously, previous to 1945, there must have been cottages further east on Benedict; out into what is now the lake.
In the early years, before Jean and Cec French (who owned Galway Bay located directly east of Dorrery Lodge) allowed Bud Harman to park his 16′ trailer on their lot, we would rent various places around the Stephen compound for the entire summer. One such place was the Boys Veranda attached to the east side of Dorrery Lodge.
The old Dorrery Lodge, while it was home to Mom and Pop Stephen and their seven children, had three verandas. The one on the West side was the main entrance to the Lodge, sort of a storage area, taking you directly into the kitchen. The one on the East side which had a separate outside entrance but no direct access to the main cottage was called the Boys veranda. The one on the North side which had no external access and was connected to the main cottage was called the Girls veranda.
The Boys veranda was about 8′ wide and maybe 24′ long. Sort of like a bowling lane with a door at the south end and an internal partition at the north end to form a ‘bedroom’. As was the custom back then, the partitions were about 7′ feet high, not to the ceiling; and the internal “door” was a curtain, on a rod, drawn across the opening. The entire outside wall had screened windows; but I don’t recall there being any glass. There was an ice box and a hot plate; a davenport that converted to a bed, and a table with chairs in the main section. The back room had a bed with a dresser. An old framed picture of Dogs Playing Poker was hung on the wall.
There was no running water. Drinking water was obtained from the artesian well that had been outfitted with a pump handle, located at the corner of Hansson and Third. The water was very cold and contained so much iron that the rocks around the well were orange in colour. The water tasted like blood. A daily chore was to get a pail of ‘drinking’ water. Tea made with this water not only had an interesting taste; but it left a scum-like residue in the cups.
This well water was too ‘hard’ for washing; it was impossible to produce a soapy lather. At each cottage, there were huge rain barrels, connected to the eave troughs. These collected the ‘soft’ water that was used for washing clothes, dishes and your hands. Although there were screen tops on these rain barrels, the water that was collected always looked a little sketchy; especially during fish fly season.
The toilet was the Stephen’s outhouse that was located over by their metal shed close to the chicken coop and vegetable garden. Mom Stephen collected eggs daily, and Pop Stephen would periodically decapitate a hen. There was a foot pedal style grindstone kept in the shed; used to sharpen knives and axes.
Another rental place was the Nook. This was an original version of the tiny house. Maybe it was 12′ by 12′; complete with a separate bedroom, a kitchen and a convertible couch; suitable for a family of four. Cannot recall experiencing any crowding or hardship. Obviously, as kids, we only slept, and ate breakfast and supper there. Otherwise we were outside.
On rainy days we’d be in someone’s veranda that was large enough to fit 5 or 6 kids. Jean and Cec French at Galway Bay had the best veranda; complete with a table and benches that could seat whoever showed up.
Ice was delivered, door to door, by a local vendor using a wagon. The icehouse itself was located on South Colonization Road across from Stan’s store. Periodically, one of the local fishermen would come by selling fillets of fresh pickerel.
Small wagons were a vital mode of transportation. There were used to haul water, to transport kids to the beach, to haul beach blankets and food stuffs to the lake. Everyone had a wagon.
Ron and Allan, being the same age, hung around together every summer for over a decade. We crawled through the icehouse that was located next to the fish processing plant in Gimli harbour close to where the Museum and Yacht Club are located today. Not the wisest thing to do; climbing to the top of blocks of slippery ice, covered in straw that hid the crevasses into which one could fall and never be heard from again.
We explored the Parrish and Heimbecker grain elevator; examining the weights, scales and grates. Once we climbed an inside ladder to the top of the elevator in order to look out of the small window that was up there. The wooden ladder went straight up for a very long way, through an unlit shaft. Some of the rungs were missing, so periodically you had to take an extra long step to continue. Once at the top, we convinced ourselves that we could see the water tower at Winnipeg Beach. But I doubt that we saw much past Willow Island. Climbing down was a bit scary; we only did that once.
Our Granddad Murphy was an engineer on the CPR. Sometimes he would be on the run to Riverton. On those occasions all the cousins would go to the train station to watch the big steam locomotive pull in with Granddad in the cab. Once the passengers and freight were off, we were allowed to board the coaches for the 200 yard ride to the water tank. Once filled with water, the engine would reverse to the station; and we’d get off.
A few of the older cousins were smuggled (one per trip) into the cab to ride with Granddad from Gimli to Riverton. That was a memorable experience: the distinctive smell of steam and coal and oily rags, watching the fireman open the firebox and shovelling coal into the roaring flames, viewing the many gauges and hearing the stream whistle blast whenever a crossroad occurred. The parents of which ever grandchild selected for the trip would drive to Riverton to collect the kid.
ALLAN, RICK, RON, IN THE BACKYARD OF THE BALTIMORE, CIRCA 1953
Rick, although a couple of years younger, would often tag along with Ron and Allan on these adventures. One time we walked the CPR tracks from Gimli to Winnipeg Beach with the hope of getting a day’s employment at the Boardwalk. We sat under the shallow trestle at Willow Creek as a train went over; convinced that the whole structure, which was only 3 feet above our heads, was about to collapse.
Never did get any work. The only offer was from the pony-ride guy who always set up next to the wooden rollercoaster. If we agreed to lead ponies around for 3 or 4 hours, we’d get a free ride at the end of the day. We declined.
In the late 50s, in the quiet of a summer’s evening you could hear the howling of what we thought were wolves. One day, the three of us decided we would check this out. Cutting through the bush, we snuck up on what was the back end of Gilley’s mink ranch. In addition to rows of cages containing vicious looking mink that were running hysterically around in their pens, were about eight very large husky-like dogs. These dogs were used in the winter to pull the sleds involved in ice fishing. It was the dogs that were doing the howling. The dogs looked as mean as the mink. Each dog was tied to a fairly flimsy sapling. Once they saw us, their lunges bent the trees to near breaking. We didn’t stay there very long.
The Icelandic Festival was always a big event. We’d go to the parade which involved many groups of Shriners. On average, they were a much younger group back then. Often, over that weekend, some of these Shriners, who were friends of our Aunts and Uncles would visit the Stephen compound.
But it was the races that interested us most. In the mid to late 1950s, there were cash prizes for 1st, 2nd and 3rd. Not a lot of money, but enough to acquire a stash of candy. You actually had to ‘register’ to enter a particular race. It was our mistaken belief that you had to be Icelandic to register. So we added ‘son’ to our last names.
It was customary to walk into Gimli using 3rd Ave, passing by the Arnason Cabins located on the lake at Colville. Here you could get on the stone wall walkway that took you almost to the Betel Nursing Home. The original version of this retaining wall was dramatically more narrow than what exists today. The main pier was much shorter then; with a lighthouse at the end. The Goldfield and Keenora would tie up to the main pier; while the fishing fleet boats were lashed 2 – 3 deep on the southern pier.
For a couple of years, in the late 1950s, there was a military rescue boat moored between the fishing boats on the southern pier. Only rarely did we actually see any crew on this boat. A few times we did get to speak with them; but they were pretty tight lipped. We did learn that they were there in case any T33 training planes from the Gimli airbase had to ditch into the lake. Maybe twice we saw that rescue ship race out of the harbour. But we never heard any news reports concerning aircraft accidents.
The gear on the rescue boat was quite unique; stretchers made of mesh; long handled gaffs; various floatation devices. A crew member did tell us that some pilots, particularly those from the Middle East, when flying in clouds or without a visible horizon, sometimes experience a condition such that they believe that they are flying upside down, when really they are not. So when they execute the manoeuvre of pulling up; they are actually going down and crashing into the lake.
The sand bars at Second Beach were spectacular. There were always at least two; one about 20′ off shore and another maybe 60′ off shore. You could wade to the first one. But you’d have to swim to the second one. Once you reached it, you would be standing in water often below your waist. It was always a strange sight to see someone so far out walking through the water.
The exact location and depth of the sandbars constantly changed, probably due to changes in the wind direction. Then there was the mystical third sand bar. It would be at least 100′ or more out there; if it was there at all. Only the really good swimmers would search for this elusive sandbar.
Often we would walk to Willow Island along the expansive sandy beach, which at times was over 100 feet wide. Eventually you’d reach the shallow channel that separated the beach from the island. The depth was usually less than 5 feet. So even if you weren’t in swim gear, you could strip off your clothes and hold them in a bundle over your head as you went across; commando style.
The lake side of the island was more rugged than the sandy beach. It was covered with bushes and rocks making the walk more difficult. About a mile along, there was the main channel that connected the lake to the marshy western area. This channel was very wide, very deep and had a significant current. There was no way to cross this.
When the lake water was out, you could access Second Beach with a car and drive for miles towards Willow Island. In the late 1950s older teenagers, or cadets from the Gimli airbase would take their cars down the beach to party. Later in the afternoon they’d drive back through a beach crowded with kids and supervising adults. These incidents never turned out well.
There were occasions when the beachgoers would dig fairly deep trenches across the beach, bury logs that protruded about eighteen inches out of the sand and move substantial rocks onto the beach. The returning party goers would run into this obstacle course. There were reports of some cars losing their oilpans.
Our Auntie Jean French was particularly upset with this situation. The safety of children was at stake. Somehow the Winnipeg Free Press (maybe the Tribune) heard about this, interviewed Jean and wrote an article. The headlines were something like ‘Little Peyton Place at South Beach Gimli‘. The Peyton Place reference was to a then current movie that was based on a rather (for its time) racy pocket novel. The story made it into other media outlets. Needless to say, it caused quite a stir in the otherwise sleepy ambiance of South Beach.
Sometime in the early to mid 1960’s, George Stephen, Gordon Harley and Bud Harman purchased an acre of land immediately south of the Stephen compound: Dorrery Lodge. They divided it into four quarter acre lots, which sat as idle bush for a number of years. Between 1975 and 1978, Allan and Douglas Stephen built a new cottage for their parents to replace their existing cottage: the Baltimore. Bud Harman, having cleared his quarter acre (at the southwest corner of Benedict and Anna) purchased the old cottage and had it moved to the site.
PICTURES OF BALTIMORE BEING MOVED
Bud and Isabel Harman, for the first time in over 20 years, now had their own cottage. This cottage was enlarged with an addition that included an indoor bathroom, another bedroom, living room and outdoor deck. This relocated and now expanded cottage was not given a real name. However, periodically, Bud would hang out a beautifully carved sign (prepared by his grandson Trevor Harman) that simply said Bugger Off.
Bud with his sign
This is the end of PART ONE; PART TWO has yet to be written.
(One of a series of articles about the history of South Beach and its families)
In the mid 1940s my mother Laura, better known as Bunty, and my father Laurence Poynter bought a lot at the corner of Hansson and South Colonization Road (now 1 Hansson Ave). So this property has been in our family for approximately 75 years.
It is told that the first owner was the Air Force. They built a cottage on this property and another on the property next door to the east around 1943. These cottages were used to billet servicemen who were training at Gimli Base, learning to fly in the war in Europe. The training ended in 1945 and my mother’s cousin purchased the property around 1946. Then it was used as a rental property for summer vacationers. When my mother’s cousin became ill she sold it to her sister Louie and her husband Jack Rogers.
I remember coming down to open the cottage up in the Spring and going into town to get fresh bread from the bakery. It was so good. We would have a week of my dad’s hoildays at the cabin and then come back in the Fall to close up.
In 1958 Louie and Jack decided to sell the cottage and that is when my parents Laura and Laurence Poynter purchased it. It was named Poynter’s Place. We spent our weekends and holidays here and enjoyed going to the beach to cool off. Friends and family would come down especially around the August long weekend and good times were had by all.
Jayne and brother Bob, 1961, Laura CottageL to R, Jayne, Laurence, Pat and Laura
After my father passed in 1976 my mother kept the cottage. By 1982 she was getting tired of trying to maintain two properties so my husband Dave and myself, Jayne[Poynter], decided to purchase it. We renamed it The Ellis Inn.
We spent our summers here enjoying our time and watching our children and later, our grandchildren, grow. I was a Girl Guide leader in Winnipeg and so there were many Girl Guide and Cub Scout camps held in our woods with wonderful sing songs and campfires. We have had many friends and family come and join us for long weekends and special occasions and it was always a pleasure to share our cottage with them.
Demolition of original cottage 2010
In 2010 we decided we would like to move here permanently from the city so a new era began. Down with the old and up with the new. We moved here in 2011 and have not regretted one moment. That is the tale of our piece of paradise.
Jayne, Bunty, & Granddaughter Tammy in 2011 with old cottage in backgroundBunty’s 100th Birthday in 2018
Peacefully, on November 18, 2020, Laura (Bunty) Poynter at 102 years, passed on at Betel Home in Selkirk, MB. She leaves to mourn her three children, Pat, Bob and Jayne, 7 grandchildren and 9 great grandchildren. Bunty lived a long, happy life, leaving the family with many happy memories of her good loving nature and her music.
Submitted by Michele Couture, March 2021 (One of a series of articles about the history of South Beach and its families)
Prior to Couture’s owning this property it was the site of Camp Sparling.
My paternal grandparents Eugene and Vera Couture purchased a cottage in South Beach in 1934. (He married Veronica Sarah Monica “Vera” Bernhart on June 27, 1927 in Winnipeg. After studying engineering at McGill University, he founded the construction firm of Couture and Toupin in Winnipeg in 1931.)
The cottage was moved a few times through the decades, with former sites being 167 Third as well as on a lot that’s now under water. I don’t know what year it ended up at 189 Third Street, but a guess is sometime in the late 1940’s or early 1950’s.
Properties are 120400 (Benson) & 120300 (Couture). Dark patch shows how lake has risen over the years.
Pictured are Vera and Eugene Couture, who became South Beach cottagers in approximately 1934.This is the original Couture cottage on its location at 167 Third Street in South Beach, Gimli.
Eugene and Vera spent summers in Gimli along with their three children, Joan, Lorraine and Paul.
Carters, Strachans & Coutures, South Beach 1937
Paul Couture with his sisters and Carter girls, 1937
Couture cottage (L) and the Couture guest house (R), (former Camp Sparlingcounsellor’s cabin). Paul Couture is the person in the foreground, ca. 1950s
Eugene passed away in 1960 and Vera in 1962. Paul followed his father into the construction industry. He inherited the cottage as both Joan and Lorraine had moved to the United States.
From left to right: Marjorie Benson, Ed Benson, Rosemary Benson, unknown, Paul Couture and Barb Couture
At this point, the cottage was still basically one room and curtains for separation. In 1964 an addition was built to accommodate the growing family. By 1968, the small, three bedroom cottage was the summer home to Paul & Barb, with children Cathy, Joanne, Mike, Michele and Doug, as well as the family dog, Candy. We used an oil burner to keep warm in the spring and fall and rain water for doing dishes. Our drinking water came from old the well at the corner of Third and Hansson. The horrors of using the outdoor biffy- home of at least 17 million spiders – was finally eliminated in the 1990’s.
Switching gears now to 187 Third Ave, the cottage of my maternal grandparents, Ed and Marjorie Benson, Barb’s parents. I can’t remember when they bought the one bedroom beauty, but a best guess is the 1960’s.
Old Benson Cottage as rendered by Dave McNabb
Having our grandparents next door was such a privilege! Hearing Grandma call “yoohoo” from her bedroom window over to our kitchen window, and seeing Grandpa at his homemade brick BBQ, are memories that still bring a smile.
Paul & Barb Couture, 2009
When both Ed and Marjorie passed away, Barb inherited the cottage. It was relocated to the country and Paul and Barb built the current house which became their permanent home in 1999. Now that Paul and Barb have passed on, the Lake House belongs to daughter Cathy and her husband Wayne Benz.
Barb Couture with son Mike. Lake House is in background.
Daughter Joanne and husband Charlie Burns purchased the old Couture cottage at 189 Third and in 2009 tore it down to build their current lake home.
Joanne & Charlie Burns building their new home, November 2009 (in the background is their old guest house, whichwas originally a counsellor’s cabin from Camp Sparling.)
Couture clan at Paul & Barb’s 60th Wedding Anniversary, July 2014, taken at Joanne and Charlie Burns property. This is the former site of the Couture cottage
Some other memories….The old, wooden break-wall gradually succumbed to decades of battering waves and ice, and is now completely gone. It used to be about 100 feet out and was between the current Couture and Stewart cottages. We always had to be aware of it’s location when the water was high – so we didn’t drive the motor boat into it!
Wooden break-walls, ca. 1950s
Low water, August 2018
From enormous sandbars to record-high water, we have had a front row seat to the ever-changing Lake Winnipeg. In 1974 everyone was sandbagging the shoreline to protect both land and cottages. At times the water was deep enough to paddle a canoe from our cottage to the Benson cottage, and one time Paul evacuated the family when he heard the waves hitting the beams underneath the cottage.
The intense storms were, and still are, as fascinating as they are scary. Our sailing family knew not to mess with Lake Winnipeg as waves whip up suddenly and can be deadly if ignored. Watching thunderstorms roll in from the north became a favourite pastime, just from the sheer awesomeness of the beauty and power.
Storm over Burns dock, (Gladys Stewart photo)
The old Barker cottage at the corner of Third and Hansson had a huge tree that everyone climbed. The gold standard was a blue flag that I think one of the Kozak boys tied around the trunk at a mystifying height.
The old gravel roads would get a fresh coat of tar once a summer. By then all the barefooted children had pretty tough feet, so it was quite a hobby to pop tar bubbles with our toes.
And finally, Evans’ Store. Nostalgic memories of Mr. and Mrs. Evans are so firmly entrenched in the summer fabric of Gimli. In my mind they were the friendliest, sweetest people. They sold all kinds of corner store necessities, but it’s the penny candy that stands out.
For many years the Couture family participated in the Winnipeg Beach to Gimli 10 Mile Road Race, which took place during Islendingadagurrin. From back left: Paul Couture, Wayne Benz, Mike Couture, Doug Couture, Barb Couture. From front left: Michele Couture, Cathy Benz (Couture), Joanne Burns (Couture), and Lisa Benz.
Charlie Burns with daughter Sarah and dog Teeka. View of Gimli Harbour and Yacht Club from Burns cottage, August 2018
Submitted by Joanna Blais, March 3, 2021 (One of a series of articles about the history of South Beach and its families)
Blais Family Cottage, 37 Howard, ca. 1972
What we came to call “the cottage” was not a cottage when it was purchased in 1972. We believe the cottage was built around 1957. The house was home to a military family who had been stationed at the base in Gimli. When the base closed the federal government bought the homes of personnel who lived off the base in the Gimli area. The houses were auctioned off in a sealed bid process.
Leo and Esther Blais had been told that in a bidding process you should always go just above the round numbers in your bid. They bid $3001.00 and were excited to find themselves successful.
Because the property was owned by “the crown” the grant reads “by HER MAJESTY THE QUEEN to Leo Lorenzo Blais and Esther Loreen Blais…TO HAVE AND TO HOLD the said lands unto the grantees and the survivor of them and his heirs, forever; saving, excepting and reserving unto US, Our Heirs and Successors, the free use, passage and enjoyment of, in over and upon all navigable waters that now are or may be hereafter found on or under or flowing through or upon any part of the said lands”.
Apparently if we ever become lake front Prince Phillip can access our property…
This is quite funny when you look back at the pictures. This tiny building was little more than a shack with three tiny bedrooms a bathroom and a main area that served as kitchen and living room. Many times, over that first year we wondered how the family that lived there got through the harsh winters. There was an oil heater and a chemical toilet that was probably only for emergencies as the outhouse was obviously well used.
It really did not matter to Esther and Leo that this was just a step up from camping. They were thrilled and this purchase gave them the place the place they most loved to be for the rest of their lives. They had three teenagers and an eleven-year-old when they took possession of 37 Howard. The next decade saw many weekends where hippies piled out of their cars and slept on the floor or in tents in the yard. The proximity to the beach made it a favourite.
Right from the beginning the cottage was a project. There were never ending goals and revisions. Most of the work was Leo and his buddies putting their heads together to solve a problem, this almost always led to another problem and so on. He had his best buddy Russell McInnis next door and Walter Bannister down the road and the three of them could spend entire weekends working on some project or another. There were of course mandatory “coffee breaks” when one of the guys would yell at the kids, or later grandchildren, to get three beer, from the nearest cottage to that week’s project.
Basic upgrades occurred over the years, everyone was excited when they added a toilet and holding tank although that meant constant reminders to not run water. Leo believed that only Esther should take a shower inside and the outdoor shower should be used by everyone else. Esther believed only “the girls” should use the indoor toilet.
In the eighties Leo and Esther decided to put on an addition. Basically, the plan was to expand the kitchen eating area and make one bedroom bigger. With a growing family and grandkids, they needed to have more room. Leo got his garage and a covered porch, and he was as happy as a clam.
The cottage became Leo and Esther’s part time home when Leo retired. The minute the pipes could be thawed they packed up the truck and headed to Gimli. Thanksgiving was always closing weekend…whether it was balmy or freezing. Leo was a part of every activity in South Beach. He loved the Property Owners Association, making floats for the parade and organizing races at the picnic were a couple of his jobs.
On June 19, 1999 Leo got up in the morning and had his coffee on the deck. He remarked that this was his favourite place in the world and then he went for a swim at the end of the street. He suffered a fatal heart attack on the beach that day. His buddy Russell died later that summer after a long illness.
Esther continued to come to the cottage as did Patricia McInnis. These two friends kept each other company and the two families came together to look after the properties. Many afternoons have been spent trying to figure out what exactly Leo and Russ were thinking!
In 2001 Joanna Blais, Esther and Leo’s oldest daughter bought the cottage with the condition that mom could keep spending her summers there for the rest of her life. Several renovations occurred to make sure the cottage was accessible and safe.
After decades of enduring the mosquitos in Gimli we finally added a sunroom by closing in the covered deck. Whenever a new improvement would be made Esther would remark, your dad would be shaking his head and saying “it’s a cottage why do you need that”.
After Esther’s death in 2016 Joanna and Cas took over the cottage and being retired it is their home for a significant part of the year. They now have grandchildren running to the beach and searching for frogs. The kids that Esther and Leo brought out that first summer became parents and their children grew up going to “the cottage” and now there are grandchildren who eagerly look forward to having a sleepover in Gimli. Such is the life of a cottage…this humble little building has been witness to our lives.
Submitted by Debbie Krysowaty, January 20, 2021 (One of a series of articles about the history of South Beach and its families)
Ralph and Josie Caligiuri are what I would call classic cottagers. They have been cottage owners in South Beach, Gimli for decades. In fact, they have cottaged here for more than five decades. They have cottage routines and rituals that are simply part of their day-to-day life. They have invested their time, energy and money into creating a beautiful, comfortable and enjoyable family paradise. In addition to this, they have generously played an important role in the South Beach cottage community. They were a little surprised when I asked them to tell me their story, but they graciously agreed to sit with me and share some details of their life in South Beach. Ralph humbly repeated to me several times that he thought I should be able to capture their history in twenty four words or less. I was not successful in that request.
Josie and Ralph were married in 1969. Not long after they were wed, Ralph said to Josie, “We are going on a road trip to Gimli, Manitoba and we are going to look for a lot to build a cottage.” Josie promptly replied, “Where is Gimli and what is a cottage?” Fast forward to 2021 and Josie knows very well where Gimli is on the map and as far as being a “cottager”, I suspect she could teach us all a thing or two about how to cottage successfully.
It all began when Ralph’s father, Peter, was called by his cousin John Masi (The Masi Family is another long time South Beach cottage family) and was encouraged to look into buying a lot in South Beach. They had friends who cottaged in South Beach and had heard all sorts of great things about the area. Ralph and Josie bought their lot at 21 Howard Avenue. Peter and Ralph’s brothers also bought building lots close by. The cost of each lot was $250.00. Yes, that is right…two hundred and fifty dollars. This was a good chunk of cash fifty years ago. The man selling these lots in South Beach was Mr. Richard Howard. He lived on Third Street along the water and worked in Gimli. He was selling multiple lots on Howard Avenue and while I don’t have confirmation of this, I am assuming the street was named after him. Mr. Howard offered a “rent to own” payment plan. He allowed Ralph and Josie to pay him twenty dollars a month until which time the lot was paid off. Ralph regrets not “buying up” more lots at the time but is quite happy that they were able to take part in this great opportunity. Additionally, he was paying only $11.00 per year in property taxes at that time. It is difficult to fathom that amount, compared to today’s rates.
Proposed Subdivision Map 1962
When they purchased, there wasn’t a drivable road on Howard Avenue. (The Caligiuris acquired a lot on the north side of the street.). Josie described Howard Avenue as looking like a big ditch. There was a walking path where the road is currently, as well as a path to the area where the lagoon was located (south of Moonlight Bay). The south side of Howard was more marshland than anything else. They would have to drive up to the cottage using Anna Street.
Peter built his cottage first (1971) at 23 Howard Avenue. Like all of the building projects, it was a family effort with various family members coming out to Gimli each weekend to lend a hand. In 1976 Ralph and Josie started building their cottage. At the same time, the Trizec Building was being built at the corner of Portage and Main. While many earlier cottages in the area may have been built with “kits” ordered from Eaton’s Catalog, Mr. Caligiuri was able to secure used lumber and other supplies from the demolition of older buildings on the Portage Avenue site. These products would be transported to South Beach every weekend (in the family car) and stored in the garage to be used in the construction of Ralph and Josie’s cottage. They also became well known customers at KC Enterprises and North American Lumber. Family members would join in to support one another in completing the building project. Ralph commented on the fact that he never understood why, when it came to working out here, “a person could work like a horse and never get tired.”
Ralph admits that he isn’t the handy man of the family. He says he “held the tape measure.” (Although, I am not sure that is entirely true as I have often seen him advising and offering support on projects with friends and family.) Luckily for them, his father was skilled in construction work and was helpful putting in the foundation as well as providing labor and management of the project. At various points in the build, a carpenter was also hired as part of the process. While the men would be working on site, the daughters-in-law would be cooking up a storm to feed the crew. Classic Italian dishes were prepared and no one ever went hungry. With different family members also building cottages, a typical day would be work, eat, build, eat, drink a little wine, and enjoy being with family. In addition to building structures, family relationships were also built as they worked together on construction projects.
The original cottage was fairly typical for the times; three bedrooms, a kitchen, living room, and a veranda. However the washroom, with indoor plumbing made the place “fancy”. The indoor washroom was part of the negotiations between the daughters-in-law and Caligiuri men. The ladies were very clear that “if they wanted us to come out here, there had to be indoor plumbing.” The negotiations were very successful as not only was there a flush toilet but also a shower! Friends would ask why the place was “so fancy” and Ralph would tell them, “If I want my wife to be here with me, it had to be this way.”
The original cottage, 1979
Ralph and Josie would pack up the car and their three children Cathy, Peter, and Jeff and head out to the cottage every weekend. They would leave the city early on a Saturday morning and stay until after lunch on Sunday. While they often worked very hard on the various chores that are part of being a cottage owner, they also took time to enjoy cottage life and create many, many beautiful memories with their children over the years. Often the kids would bring out friends or other family members (aunts, uncles, nieces, nephews, cousins) would tag along and it was a “full house” at the lake for the weekend.
The renovated cottage as it stands today
Eventually the kids grew up and they started expanding the family with grandkids. Ralph and Josie are grandparents to twelve grandchildren! This meant only one thing. They would have to expand their South Beach retreat. A major renovation to the original building began and has produced a place that is very comfortable for their large family. The updated and renovated structure now has five bedrooms, a large living room, a beautiful washroom facility, and of course the heart of the cottage, a large kitchen and dining area complete with dining tables handcrafted by Ralph’s cousin Alfred. Outside there is a large deck with a screened gazebo and in the yard, there is a fire pit area. Family and neighbors are welcome to socialize and many have done so over the years. Also in the yard, there is a swing set and a trampoline. When everyone comes out for a visit, “there are people and kids everywhere”. It is not out of the ordinary for up to twenty three people to be spending a weekend together. They have their cottage equipped and ready for family to visit and enjoy the best life at the lake has to offer. During cottage season, they see each other more in Gimli than in the city.
South Beach Property Owners Annual Picnic
Ralph has been very involved with the annual South Beach Family Picnic. The event is very important to both Ralph and Josie. They see it as an opportunity for South Beach families to come together and celebrate as a community as well as a great time for their family to participate in the community. The picnic is a “big deal” for everyone. The whole family comes out to the cottage for the September long weekend and attendance at the picnic is expected. Ralph is the Head Chef manning the BBQ and invites everyone to participate in a friendly (but competitive) game of bocce.
Bocce Ball Tournament trophies
If I were to sum up my interpretation of cottage life for Ralph and Josie I would choose these words, pride and joy. The Caligiuris are extremely proud people. Rightfully proud of their hard work and what they have accomplished with the legacy they have created for their children and grandchildren. They do what they do for their family and with their family; it brings them incredible joy. A joy that is almost tangible when you have the opportunity to visit with them at their beautiful cottage. Ralph and Josie inspire me with a determination to work toward similar goals with my family and our cottage.
When I asked Josie and Ralph to sum up their cottage life, they readily replied, “Fifty years of a good life. Absolutely no regrets. We have enjoyed our cottage from day one, since we first stepped into South Beach.” (How about that… exactly twenty four words!)
Submitted by Ron Harman and Kathleen Coe, December 2020 (One of a series of articles about the history of South Beach and its families)
In South Beach, every summer since 1984, with just a couple of exceptions, members of the Murphy family have held an annual baseball game; culminating with the presentation of the Doris Murphy Summertime BaseballTrophy. For better than 35 years, the Murphy family has engaged in this annual ritual.
Recently the question was asked: how did this event, which has lasted for decades, get started and what keeps it going.
Eileen Pennycook, Fran Thompson, Isabel Harman, Stan Murphy, Jean French, and Grace Stephen
Below is an attempt to answer that question. But to do so, one must provide some background on not only the game, and why is it held in Gimli,* but of the person named on the trophy; Doris Murphy. This preamble may not seem to address the baseball game, but it is essential to understanding the significance of the game.
Walter and Catherine Medgett, the adoptive parents of Doris Alma, lived in England. Prior to WWI they moved, with their daughter to Souris, Manitoba. There they ran a boarding house. Residing in that boarding house was James Cecil Murphy, who had come to Canada from Ireland and was working with the Canadian Pacific Railroad. In 1916 Doris married James to become Doris Murphy; the future matriarch of the Murphy family.
Doris Murphy and her grandchildren in 1962 L to R Back Row: Bryan Thompson, Ron Harman, Rick Harman, Shirley French holding Randy French, Allan Stephen holding Moira Pennycook Middle Row: David Pennycook, Douglas Stephen, Patty French, Jim Thompson, Stirling Pennycook, Joan Thompson, Sherilyn Murphy Front Row: Kathleen Pennycook, Marilyn French, Stanley Murphy, Doris Murphy holding Christopher Pennycook, Margaret Pennycook, Phyllis Murphy
Walter Medgett was ex-Royal Navy and had enlisted in the Canadian Naval Reserve; along with his new son-in-law James Murphy. Both were subsequently assigned to the naval port of Halifax; Walter on the Nairobi and James on a mine sweeper. Going with them to Halifax were Catherine Medgett, Doris Murphy and Doris’s infant son Stan. In the Halifax Explosion of December 1917, the men were on their ships and both survived. However, the blast killed Mrs. Medgett and Doris lost an eye as a result of flying glass.
Following the war, they returned to Souris where the family grew with the arrival of Grace, Isabel, Frances, the twins Jean and Jim and lastly Eileen. After moving to Winnipeg around 1937, the Murphy family connected with the family of John and Jean Stephen, who also had seven children: five boys and two girls. A boy and girl from each family inter-married: Stan Murphy to Jessie Stephen and George Stephen to Grace Murphy.
L to R: Doris Murphy, Eileen Pennycook, James Murphy, Grace Stephen, Jean French, Fran Thompson, Stan Murphy, Isabel Harman, Jim Murphy
John and Jean Stephen, referred to by everyone as Mom and Pop Stephen, had a place at South Beach: Dorrery Lodge. This became the central summer place for both families. Over time, six of the seven children of Doris Murphy acquired land and built cottages all around the Stephen compound. Stan and Jessie had two cottages directly across Benedict from Dorrery Lodge. Every year, Doris Murphy would spend her entire summer in one of these. Grace and George had their cottage, the Baltimore, on Hansson, just a few lots west of Evan’s Store. Jean Murphy who married Cec French had a place directly east of Dorrery Lodge called Galway Bay. Isabel Murphy married Bud Harman and for years they rented The Nook and the boy’s Veranda from Pop Stephen. Later the Harmans had a 16 foot travel trailer that the French’s graciously allowed them to park at Galway Bay. The Harmans eventually acquired a lot directly west of the Stephen property at what is now the SW corner of Benedict and Anna, and built a place in 1975. Francis Murphy married Ernie Thompson and they bought a place on Benedict, adjacent to Stan and Jessie’s lots, and directly across from Galway Bay. Eileen Murphy married Rod Pennycook and they built a cottage on the corner of Ethel and Anna, immediately south of the Stephen compound.
Except for Jim Murphy, who, in 1967, had moved to Alberta and then to BC, all of Doris’s children had summer places within a few hundred yards of one another, essentially surrounding the Stephen compound. Grace had two sons as did Isabel. Jean had four children, Jim and his wife Sharon (nee Tighe) had five, Frances had three and Eileen had six. Spending summers growing up in this family environment was quite unique. Everyone was either your cousin, an uncle or an aunt. It was the ideal set up for young children; lots of freedom, open spaces, sandy beaches, pounding surf, and a ton of playmates. In those days, the vacation period wasn’t just a couple of weeks. Families (consisting of the moms and their children while the dads commuted to work) stayed for the entire summer; 7 – 8 weeks. Every day, for a couple of months, you saw the same people. As this cohort of “cousins” grew up, the activities changed but the connections remained.
Even when the “cousins” themselves married and moved away, there was a strong pull to return to this area. If you had moved away, and you wanted to see most of your relatives ‘in one fell swoop’ – just go to South Beach, preferably during the Icelandic Festival, and they’d all be there; from Vancouver, Calgary, Toronto and all parts of Winnipeg.
With that lengthy preamble, let’s talk baseball.
There was always some form of baseball being played even back in the early 1950s. Doris’s children and their spouses, whom we’ll refer to as the Aunts and Uncles, played a lot of horseshoes. From the mid 1940s to the late 1960s horseshoes were the prime venue. So many pairs, complicated double knock out schedules, with tournaments lasting days, and sometimes so late into the summer night that cars had to be driven onto the lawn of Dorrery Lodge so that their headlights could provide light onto the sand pits.
Baseball was more of a ‘cousins’ sport. The kids from a couple of families could link up and you’d have enough bodies to form a couple of teams. Initially games happened on the grounds of Dorrery Lodge. But as the players got bigger, more room was needed. For a time we played on the grounds of the school that was close to the present Dr. George Johnson Middle School. As the popularity of the annual Icelandic Festival increased over the years, parking anywhere near the park was problematic. Around the late 80’s or early 90’s the baseball venue moved to the Gimli High School grounds.
As the cousins got older, they’d invite their city friends to the lake for the day or the weekend. Soon these folks became involved in the baseball game. Not always with good results. The game morphed from a family affair into a more competitive event.
Doris Murphy, our grandmother, died in March 1983, at the age of 85. Our grandfather, James Murphy, had died in 1957, at the age of 62. Most of the cousins weren’t even born when James died, and those that were around were really too young to remember him. It was Doris that they knew. She was at her cottage every summer as they were growing up. Doris was the head of the Murphy family. At the time of her death Doris had 22 grandchildren and 25 great grandchildren.
Doris at Jesta
Her death had an impact on many people. During the summer of 1983, while the families gathered for the Gimli August long weekend, usually around a crackling bonfire with sufficient adult beverages, there was talk of Grandma Murphy and that maybe we should do something to honour her memory. That “something” would have to be something that all the families could get behind, and participate in, regardless of age, and of course it would have to happen right here, in Gimli, preferably on the August Long Weekend. And thus the notion of reviving a family baseball game was hatched.
A trophy was commissioned; entitled the Doris Murphy Summertime Baseball Trophy. The word Summertime was included because, for most of us, that was when we’d see Grandma.
Rules were created to ensure that the baseball game would be, exclusively, a family affair. Copies of the rules were sent to all the families, with the plan to have the inaugural game(s) on the August Long Weekend of 1984.
There are copies of these Original Rules still around, stuck in the bottom of cottage drawers. Printed on two sides of green card stock, they make for interesting reading. But a few of the highlights are;
Rule 1: the game follows Slow Pitch rules – it was felt that slow pitch enabled virtually everyone to have a chance at hitting the ball.
Rule 2: Eligibility to participate was key. You had to be family. Participants had to be direct descendants of Doris Murphy or married to a direct descendant of Doris Murphy. And the player must be at least 9 years of age and preferably older.
This Eligibility rule may seem straightforward; but it wasn’t. As we progressed into the 21th century, the definition of marriage was up for discussion. Unfortunately, the original rules did not have any dispute resolution mechanism. Also, the age of 9 can cause problems since some the great grandchildren are playing community league baseball well before the age of 9.
Ron confesses that as the author of the original rules, the initial age limit was set at 10. A nice round number. When reading the rules to his own children, before he sent the rules to the other families, his daughter Christen said that the age rule had to be revised – to 9. She reminded him that she would not be turning 10 until August 26; which is after the Long Weekend. The age limit was revised.
Rule 6: The original rules had a section called the Average Age Advantage. It was specifically included so that there was a distinct advantage if you had members on your team that were over the age of 35. The older they were then 35, the greater number of points your team collected. And these points could be converted into “runs”.
The night before the baseball game teams would try to recruit those aunts and uncles who were old, but still nimble enough to play. George Stephen was a much sought after player, well into his 70s.
In practice, the Average Age Advantage rule was never seriously applied. But it served its purpose. In the early years of the of the revised games, and to this day, there are seniors playing alongside their grandchildren.
Also, as part of Rule 1, there was a statement concerning the umpire’s rulings. It stated that these rulings shall be final regardless of how strange the umpire’s calls may be. This rule was specifically included to recognize Cec French. Uncle Cec had acted as the umpire for most of the past ball games. As in any quasi competitive situation, controversies can arise and the Umpire has to make a ruling. We were never sure if Cec made these controversial calls because he had completely missed the play, if he wanted to inject some humour or was trying to ‘level’ the playing field. The younger the player, the more favourable the call.
The actual mechanics of the game are very simple. All the eligible players, those who actually want to play, are identified, and assigned to one of two teams. There is an attempt to keep family members together, but not strictly. Given the wide variations in skill levels (remember some of these people are professional athletes and some actually play competitive baseball, while other have never swung a bat) consideration is taken to provide some sense of ‘equality’. Each team may have from 12 to 14+ players. In each inning, the entire team gets to bat; no such thing as three outs. There are three innings. Score sheets are kept. Post game team photos are taken. Usually there are as many spectators as players. The whole event probably lasts 2 1/2 hours.
In 2016, the rules were revised. Printed on two sides of yellow card stock. Now there is an overseeing Senate, consisting of a representative from each original family, to handle interpretation issues and procedural matters. The Average Age Advantage rule is simplified; but still rewards those teams who have player who are seniors.
But Rule 10, the last rule, remains unchanged.
Rule 10: This rule involves the responsibilities of the winning team. They must get the plaque made and affixed to the trophy. They must keep the trophy safe and make it available for presentation the next year. And here is the big one. The winning team must provide suitable post game refreshments for the other team.
This last rule has morphed into a gigantic BBQ. It takes weeks to plan, and hosts not only the players but the spectators and other family members as well. It’s a massive family affair that involves rehashing any embarrassing on field performances, testing one’s memory concerning the names of an ever increasing number of young relatives, and simply catching up on events that have transpired over the past year. This family get-together lasts longer than the actual game.
The senior members of the family are recruited to identify the game’s MVP. Each player signs a new softball, and this signed baseball is presented to the MVP. There are more than a few of these prized keepsakes to be found, safely tucked away.
Finally, as the gathering come to a close, there is the presentation of the Doris Murphy Summertime Baseball Trophy; usually followed by a gracious but light-hearted acceptance speech.
From 1984 to the present, there have been 32 games with 3 postponements. One cancellation occurred during a particularly wet weekend (2001) when the playing field was underwater. Another, in 2012, when a medical emergency forced an entire family to withdraw. The most recent cancellation was the extremely hot and humid summer of 2019 when nobody wanted to be out in the sun, let alone play baseball. Although the games were cancelled, the family BBQs were held.
As you have gathered by now, the Doris Murphy Summertime Baseball event was never really about baseball. It was the perfect opportunity to pay respect to a very special lady and provide a means of staying connected with a special family.
Submitted by Kathleen Coe, November 2020 (One of a series of articles about the history of South Beach and its families)
Eileen Murphy was 16 years old when she went to visit her older sister Grace and husband George Stephen in Gimli. They invited her to their cottage on Hansson Avenue near South Colonization Road. The area was better known then as South Beach. To her surprise, Eileen’s boyfriend Rod Pennycook took the train to Winnipeg Beach and then walked 10 miles to Gimli to see her! Is it any wonder they were married 5 years later (1951) and the saga started.
Eileen and Rod’s Gimli story started by first renting the veranda of a cottage from Mr & Mrs John Stephen at Dorrery Lodge on Benedict Avenue (SE corner of Anna).*
They didn’t have a fridge, only an ice box. But Eileen’s dad, Jim Murphy, was an engineer for the CPR and quite often operated the train that ran through Gimli to Riverton. He would throw off a huge slab of ice and she would fetch it in a wagon to take home. It lasted for weeks in the ice box. (And sometimes he would sneak the grandkids into the train cab too.)
The Nook in the background
As the Pennycook family grew they rented the following cottages between 1952 & 1960: 1st: The Nook was owned by Art Stephen and located on the Stephen compound. Eileen is sure it was the smallest cottage in the world. Bud Harman used to say, you could spit from the front door through to the back of the cottage. 2nd: For two summers they rented Jim Stephen’s place also on the Stephen property, a cottage named Rothiemay. 3rd: Stachow’s Sundown on the NW corner of Third Ave and Benedict. 4th: Older sister Frances & Ernie Thompson’s cottage on Benedict (27 Benedict) for a couple of years. 5th: The Vockerath cottage (31 Benedict) was the longest they stayed until they built their own.
The Nook
In 1960 Rod and Eileen built their cottage on the southeast corner of Ethel and Anna. They were fortunate to have Rod’s father arrange a package deal through his employer – The Empire Sash & Door, with a top builder and excellent materials. When the cottage was finished it was a masterpiece.
Back in the day families traditionally named their cottages, with an appropriate plaque proudly displayed on the front. Sometimes these names were family references or familiar places in the ‘old country’. The Pennycook’s named theirs The7 Pennys. But when Chris was born they changed it to The 8 Pennys. Mrs. Stephen used to say she was waiting for the “thin dime”.
Rod came to the cottage every weekend and sometimes on Wednesdays. Eileen never had a car for 12 years. Thank goodness for friends and the Gimli Hospital, which was used frequently. Dr. George Johnson became their “summer family doctor”.
For quite a while The Eight Pennys was painted coral. It would be many years before they had electricity, running water and a bathroom. They also didn’t have a telephone, television or computer.
Washing diapers and clothes was a problem. They saved all the rain water for laundry and a separate tub for the diapers, all done by hand and hung on the clothesline.
The drinking water was hauled up by pailful from the artesian well pump at the end of the road near the beach. (It’s still there to this day). Eileen’s nephew, Allan Stephen worked for the city waterworks and tested it regularly thus assuming that it was excellent drinking water.
Nobody liked using an outhouse, especially Margaret. One day they discovered a dead skunk down the hole. Doug Hicks happened to drop in, so Eileen asked him how to get rid of it. “Oh! Eileen, don’t worry, it will get bigger and bigger and bigger and then blow up. I only hope you are not in there when it happens.” She immediately told Rod, “We have to build a new outhouse.” With that Doug turned around to go home laughing all the way. Like most cottagers they eventually had a holding tank installed, emptied by the “Honey Man”.
Eileen and Rod’s saga is set in the larger context of the Murphy and Stephen clan, many of whom had property in South Beach as well. And particularly magnified because her older siblings, Stanley and Grace, both married Stephens! See this article for more on that!
Murphy Family Children Stanley Murphy m. Jessie Stephen Grace m. George Stephen (Allan, Douglas) Isabel m. Reginald Harman (Ron, Rick) Frances m. Ernest Thompson (Bryan, Jim, Joan) Twin Jean m. Cecil French (Shirley, Patti, Marilyn, Randy) Twin Jim Murphy m. Sharon Tighe (Sherilyn, Stanley, Phyllis, Terry, Lorae) Eileen m. Roderick Pennycook (Stirling, David, Kathleen, Margaret, Moira, Christopher)
Murphy Family Seated L to R: Stan Murphy, Doris Murphy, James Murphy, Grace Stephen, Back Row L to R: Jean French, Isabel Harman, Jimmy Murphy, Frances Thompson, Eileen Pennycook
Eileen’s oldest brother, Stan Murphy and his wife Jessie Stephen were married in Vancouver in 1942. Stan’s war service was from 1939 – 1945. He started as seaman in the Reserve in 1939 and finished as Lt. C.M.D.R. He was employed by Imperial Optical and was recognized for his managerial ability and was delegated to open branches in Barbados. After 2 years he opened branches in Jamaica as well and served there for 27 years then moved to Toronto and retired to Winnipeg. Shortly after the war he bought two veterans units at an auction at the University of Manitoba. He had them sent to Gimli and placed them on Benedict St across from Dorrery Lodge; one for them and one for Grandma Murphy. The two little cottages were named Jesta (a combination of Jessie and Stan) and Monymusk (pertaining to a place in Scotland or maybe Jamaica). Eileen’s older sister Jean & her husband Cecil French used one of these little cottages when the Murphy’s lived in Jamaica. Jean and Cecil also owned Galway Bay cottage (28 Benedict).
Galway Bay (28 Benedict) cottage in background
Doris Murphy and her grandchildren in 1962 L to R Back Row: Bryan Thompson, Ron Harman, Rick Harman, Shirley French holding Randy French, Allan Stephen holding Moira Pennycook Middle Row: David Pennycook, Douglas Stephen, Patty French, Jim Thompson, Stirling Pennycook, Joan Thompson, Sherilyn Murphy Front Row: Kathleen Pennycook, Marilyn French, Stanley Murphy, Doris Murphy holding Christopher Pennycook, Margaret Pennycook, Phyllis Murphy
Doris Murphy at Jesta
The Three Rods: Rod Jr, Rod Sr, & Rod Stirling, 1979
Like most families at the time, the Pennycooks went to the cottage from July 1st to September 1st. The kids really enjoyed the summer. As long as the weather was good, they went to the beach everyday.
Kathleen in 1959
The women would sit in lawn chairs sipping tea and watching their little darlings. As a regular ritual Eileen would go up to the cottage, as she was the closest, to make the pot of tea and fetch some goodies. Sisters Jean, Grace, and Marg Hicks would look after the kids in her absence. Everyone enjoyed playing with their cousins and friends.
In the evenings and days of bad weather they played games, did puzzles, or read books. They never had a TV at the cottage and they never seemed to mind. They played a lot of card games. (Regarding the weekend adult card games, they told Doug Hicks that Rod would have retired earlier if Doug hadn’t won all their money.)
Eileen and Rod, ca. 1970
Everyone is used to the fish flies but Eileen remembers the “Year of the Frogs”. In 1972 there were thousands of them. The roads were turned to green and looked like a wavy river as far as the eye could see. Their appearance was a mystery and they disappeared after the summer ended. Also a mystery.
Spring raking, Kathleen and Eileen
Everyone went to the Gimli movie theatre on Saturday nights. 15 cents for kids and 25 cents for Adults. They still remember the film called The Hallelujah Trail, a 1965 American Western mockumentary spoof, the longest and stupidest movie any of them had ever seen. Kathleen lucked out. She had misbehaved so had to stay home and was fortunate not to have to suffer through it.
The children all learned to swim through the Red Cross program in Gimli. Red Cross distributed information at the beginning of the summer on the program by flyers. Instruction was given to 5 to 12 year olds at the Gimli Pier for Beginners, Juniors, Intermediates and Life Saving Bronze. The youngest kids were taught on the beach. The older ones were on the piers, a scary experience for them, when they had to jump or dive off. Stirling still has all his badges to this day.
In 1982 the Pennycook’s bought the cottage next door on the east side from the Van family. A platform deck between the two cottages was built shortly thereafter and one of the highlights of the year began – the entertainment, singing and dancing with homemade dresses and costumes by the kids under Eileen’s son-in-law Ken Coe’s direction. It grew over time so that all the neighbours in South Beach attended. When Eileen expressed her concern as to the quality of the performances Ken told her not to worry – he was “Keeper of the HOOK”.
Pennycook ‘stage’
Some of the highlight star performances were: Craig Stephen – Michael Jackson, Moon Walk Brynn Harman – These Boots Were Made For Walking Chris Trubyk – Sports Announcer Shawn Coe – Burn in Hell & Splish Splash I was Taking a Bath 8 adults Square Dancing – led by George & Grace Stephen
Once the grandkids arrived the summer began with a ritual flag raising. Eileen would have a cake made up at the Central Bakery (Centre Street, Gimli) decorated with the Canadian Flag. All the neighbours including the Sobkowichs, Woods, Wards and Hicks, would come over and sing O Canada whilst Kathleen and Ken’s son Scott Coe hoisted the flag up the pole in front of the cottage. Once the flag flew everyone knew beach time had started in earnest.
Christopher’s son, Randy singing O Canada
Neighbours gather for the flag raising
1990
Watching from the road
Canada Day 1993
Pennycook grandchildren on trampoline, 1997
Eileen & Rod’s grandchildren, 2016
Eileen often wondered why they left their new home in Winnipeg with all the necessary appliances but as it turned out Gimli was where they were most fortunate to be in the summer. Quite often Grandad and Grandma Pennycook, along with Rod’s sister Moira & Sam Malegus visited them on weekends. Golfing buddies from St. Charles and curling friends from the city were regular visitors. They always attended the parades and played golf.
L to R: Kathleen Coe, Margaret Daniel, David Pennycook, Eileen Pennycook, Rod Pennycook, Moira Malegus, Chris Pennycook, Moira Farrer, Stirling Pennycook in 2017
2017 Family Reunion
Annual Murphy Family baseball game**
Eileen celebrated her 90th birthday on July 18, 2020. She smiles as she says “we were so thankful for the many blessings South Beach offered.”
Eileen & Rod’s Children, Palm Springs, Christmas 2019 L to R: Chris, Moira, Margaret, Kathleen, David and Stirling
Daughter Kathleen and husband Ken Coe took over The Eight Pennys (24 Ethel) in 2003. At her retirement in 2013 Ken turned it into their permanent home.
Submitted by Wendy Dunlop, Sept 2020 (One of a series of articles about the history of South Beach and its families)
Henry (Harry) John and Lizzie Ford, who resided in Winnipeg, visited the Stephens at Dorrery Lodge along with their friends the Sims. Between 1933 & 35 Henry purchased Lot 4 on Benedict Street which is now #30. Avonlea was the name of the cottage, after Avonlea United Church now located in the town of Domain, Manitoba where Harry emigrated to from present day Hackney in London, England (by the River Lea).
Lizzie & Harry in backyard at cottage in 1942
Harry and Lizzie had two children Gladys and Jack. Lizzie was known in South Beach for her cooking and she would feed summer residents at least once a year using her backyard cookhouse. Our mother, Gladys, told us, that she enjoyed cooking for people and they would set up tables extending the full length of the cottage, including the veranda.
Harry Ford and possibly Johnny Stephen beside cottage
Harry spent a lot of time during the 50’s playing cards on the patio behind Dorrery Lodge with his buddies. He also participated in most of the horseshoe tournaments played at the horseshoe pit on Stephen’s back lawn.
Lizzie and Gladys cutting logs in front of Lizzie’s cookhouse
Gladys (Ford) and Harold (sometimes called Harry) Rothwell took over the cottage in 1962 after the passing of Harry Ford. Harold and Glady (nickname) had two girls, Wendy and Pat. Gladys along with Vic Sobkowich and other cottagers formed the first South Beach Property Owners Association. For three years Harold’s boat and car were decorated to participate in the Icelandic Festival.
First South Beach float to enter the Icelandic Festival parade in 1960
Harold provided entertainment for many children and adults by providing his boat for waterskiing. There were many thrills and spills galore during those summers.
When Harold and Gladys moved to Victoria, BC, Pat moved with them and eventually moved permanently to London, England. Wendy (Rothwell) Wolynec then took over the cottage. Wendy and Pat added onto the original 18 ft by 18 ft cottage (minus the veranda). Every generation has added something to the cottage and land. The roof inside of the original cottage was a collaboration by Harold and Vic Sobkowich who called thereafter the Rothwell ceiling.
Wendy and Marian Wolynec had three children, Chris, Lisa and John. The cottage is now owned by Wendy’s two sons, Chris and John Wolynec and their families. The Wolynec’s are continuing to upgrade adding some new improvements to the property.
Submitted by Jeff and Doug Stephen, August 2020 (One of a series of articles about the history of South Beach and its families)
John and Jean Stephen
Jean and John Stephen purchased an unoccupied farmhouse at the south east corner of Benedict and Anna from Benedict Jonasson (p. 116, Gimli Saga) for $500 in 1932.
The area would soon become known as South Beach. At the time John did not think they could afford the place when they first saw it, but Jean had been secretly saving her oldest son’s (George) room and board and paid for the place in cash.
As was the historical practice at the time the name they gave their new cottagewas Dorrery Lodge, after a residence in the Scottish Highlands that Jean worked at as a young girl.
Spring opening at Dorrery Lodge, North East view
From then on they would come up from Winnipeg and spend their weekends and summers, enjoying the area and watching it grow along with their eight kids*, who also brought out friends and eventually their spouses and subsequent families. And so it began, the growth and interest of the Stephen family in South Beach, Gimli now spanning five generations.
Stephen clan in the yard of Dorrery Lodge, East view
Children of John Stephen & his wife Jean Cormack: George m. Grace Murphy Elizabeth (Bette) m. Syd Donovan Arthur (Art) m. Jeanne Hayes Jessie m. Stanley (Stan) Murphy (Grace’s brother) James (Jim) m. Beth Tibbs William (Bill) m. Joyce Roberts Bruce m. Jean Durnon Wallace (Wally) m. Shirley Dickie
Playing horseshoes on the lane, North view
The original Dorrery Lodge was taken down in 1986 due to age and condition. In 1987 a new Dorrery Lodge was built and remains in the same place today at 22 Benedict.
The ‘new’ Dorrery Lodge, 2020
The J Stephen Park (corner of Anna & Howard) is named in John and Jean’s honour. The annual picnic of the South Beach Property Owners Association is held there every summer. A lovely picnic pavilion was built recently.
New Pavilion
Annual Picnic races
Allan Stephen, grandson of Jean and JohnSome of the Stephen family descendants, 2019
How the Stephen / Murphy family connections came to be
The connection started before Gimli – both the Stephen and Murphy families (and the Pennycooks) attended Old St. Andrews Church in downtown Winnipeg on Elgin Ave. In the 1930s the church had a very active youth group called ‘Young Peoples’ and the Stephen and Murphy kids all knew each other there – in the summer many of them would all go down to Gimli to get out of the city. This is how Jessie Stephen first met Stan, how George Stephen first met Grace, and how Eileen Murphy first met Rod Pennycook!
John and Jean bought a lot on the north side of 3rd Avenue (maybe early 1950s?) and moved a building to it and called the cottage Thurso (the main town in Caithness, Scotland where Jean grew up). Also, they bought 2 buildings and moved them to the south half of their 1-acre Dorrery Lodge lot. One was a tiny 1-room cottage affectionately named The Nook. The other somewhat large cottage was named Rothiemay (a town in Aberdeenshire Scotland near where John grew up). For years they rented out all 3 of these cottages in the summer, often to some of the younger Murphy kids.
Over time, Jean & John sold Thurso and gave Rothiemay to their son Jim and The Nook to son Wallace. Art & Jean had a lakefront cottage in Boundary Park (Winnipeg Beach).
Jessie & Stan moved 2 surplus wartime houses from the University of Manitoba campus to 2 lots immediately north of Dorrery Lodge on Benedict Street. The corner cottage was called Monymusk (another Aberdeenshire town from John’s youth) and the other was called Jesta (even back in the 1950s, couples made a new moniker from combining their names, Jessie & Stan!). Jessie and Stan lived in Jamaica and came back to Gimli every 2nd summer, staying at Monymusk. In between, Monymusk was rented out.
Stan & Grace Murphy’s mother Doris was widowed in 1957 and from then on she spent the summer months at Jesta until her death in the 1980s. So, the Stephen and Murphy parents/grandparents lived across the street from each other for years, thus cementing the Stephen/Murphy family’s closeness.
Doris at Jesta
Elizabeth ‘Bette’ and husband Syd moved away to Vancouver after WW2. Bill moved away to Calgary in his early 20s. Bruce was not in the area as he moved around frequently. Wallace moved away to Alberta and sold The Nook to Jim & Beth. When Jim died in the 1990s, Rothiemay and The Nook were sold, as his children lived out of the province.
Because of the double marriage of the eldest children (Jessie/Stan and George/Grace) the families were very close to John & Jean. While many of the Stephen children moved away, all 5 Murphy sisters had cottages or lots around Dorrery Lodge:
– Isabel & husband Bud Harman owned the lot at the SW corner of Benedict & Anna. – Fran & husband Ernie Thompson had a cottage immediately east of Jesta. – Jean & husband Cecil French owned the cottage Galway Bay (28 Benedict) immediately east of Dorrery Lodge. – Eileen & husband Rod Pennycook built a cottage at the SE corner of Anna & Ethel (Kathleen Pennycook & Ken Coe’s home today) – Grace & husband George Stephen had their cottage – The Baltimore – at 5 Hansson Ave. When they had a new cottage built in the 1970s, the original cottage was moved to Isabel & Bud’s lot.
Moneymusk, Jesta, and Fran & Ernie’s cottage have all been demolished and that land is now Rick & Patty Harman’s home at 27 Benedict Ave.
The next generations: Kate Stephen (George & Grace were her great grandparents) Evelyn Seow (George & Grace were her great grandparents) with her grandfather Doug Stephen (son of George & Grace) at J. Stephen Park
Jean and John would both be proud of the legacy they created, that of many happy families now enjoying the beautiful area of South Beach, Gimli, Manitoba.
* More Stephen/Pennycook family history is referenced in this post.