Harman Family in South Beach

Submitted by Ron Harman, July 28, 2022
(One of a series of articles about the history of South Beach and its families)

The Harman family has been connected to South Beach since the early 1940’s; but their involvement with this general area of Lake Winnipeg goes back to the 1930s.

Morris Harman and wife Beth (nee Elizabeth DeWinter) purchased five lakeside lots near Sandy Hook in the early 30’s. By today’s landmarks these lots were located a few lots North of Camp Massad and south of Jimmy Doyle’s Golf Course on PTH 519. Back then, the Salvation Army had a summer camp on the lake at the east end of PTH 519.

Two lots were cleared to build a cottage, the others remained as bush. The original cottage, lot 59, which is still there today (as a house), was about 30′ by 24′ with no interior walls. Hospital type curtains divided this single area into 4 zones. Pulled back during the day to provide one large open area; pulled closed at night to provide 3 bedrooms and a zone for the kitchen. Each “bedroom” had a Davenport that was a couch during the day and converted to a double bed at night. The massive wood stove in the kitchen area was used to heat the cottage as well as for cooking. There was an outhouse and tool shed and parking for 4 or 5 cars. No running water. Drinking water was obtained from a well about a half mile south near the Polish Pioneer cemetery. Lake water was pumped up for lawns and gardens.

Morris and Beth (grandparents to Ron and Rick Harman) had 4 surviving children; Raymond, Reginald (better known as Bud), Patricia and Gerry. The two older boys assisted with constructing the cabin. Morris was a carpenter/tinsmith by trade. He owned Kildonan Sheet Metal which he operated from his house at 330 Ottawa Avenue in East Kildonan, Winnipeg.

PAT AND GRANDAD AT THE GATE OF LOT 59SANDY HOOK
MORRIS HARMAN, PAT HARMAN, GLORIA STANIER
JULY 1945

The level of Lake Winnipeg varied depending on the season and the wind direction. Typically it was low during the early summer. The shoreline was course gravel, not sand, that turned into mud, complete with reeds, as you went towards the lake. Cottagers would lay 2″ x 8″ planks on the muck so you could reach the water cleanly. As the water level rose, they would reposition these boards to construct rudimentary plank piers, each section about 8 feet long and 16 inches wide, held up by posts sunk in the mud. Boats had to be brought up onto shore when not in use; hauled across some 100 feet of gumbo and gravel.

Bud Harman married Isabel Murphy in 1943, and they had two boys; Ron (1944) and Rick (1946). As a family, most of our summers were spent at South Beach, in and around the Stephen compound. We would always stop at Sandy Hook on our way there to visit with our grandparents.

When Ron was young, Grandma Harman often took him to Sandy Hook for the weekend, on the pretext of giving Isabel a break. The car ride was a fabulous experience. Granddad smoked White Owl cigars; he always had 2 or 3 in his shirt pocket. The car was a big Desoto with fabric upholstery that had absorbed years of these fumes. It was like riding in a vintage humidor. We always stopped at the Half Moon (Lockport) for ice cream. The privileges of being the eldest grandchild.

During these times, Auntie Pat, who owned a wooden Peterbough with a 10 HP Johnson would take Ron into Winnipeg Beach via water; let him drive the boat and taught him how to water ski. In 1955 they went to Winnipeg Beach to watch Kathie McIntosh complete her swim across Lake Winnipeg from Grand Beach. There was a massive flotilla of boats and a huge crowd on the beach to watch her exit the water in the early evening.

Bud Harman enlisted in the RC Navy and was stationed in Victoria where Ron was born. Following the war they returned to Winnipeg. Isabel’s older sister, Grace, had married George Stephen. Their eldest son, Allan, was born a few months after Ron. Starting in 1945, Grace and Isabel, and their boys, essentially spent all their summers at South Beach. Grace and George had their own cottage, named the Baltimore; located on Hansson Ave, a couple of lots west of Evan’s store.

Judging from the early (1945) photos taken around Dorrery Lodge, clothing was optional. Anyone familiar with the use of cloth diapers and the constant laundering involved can appreciate the benefits and time-saving aspects of simply letting the boys go ‘au naturel.

RON AND ALLAN 1945, FRONT YARD OF DORRERY LODGE
LOOKING TOWARDS THE FUTURE LOCATION OF RICK AND PAT HARMAN’S COTTAGE

At this time, Hansson and Ethel were through streets. They connected South Colonization Road to 3rd Avenue which ran along the shoreline (one cottage lot in). Benedict Street ran west from 3rd Avenue but came to a dead end in front of Dorrery Lodge; the Stephen compound.

Everything further west to South Colonization Road was basically forest. There was no Anna Avenue. There was a trail through the bush from the Stephen’s place to Hansson. This trail came out more or less in front of Evan’s store.

The lake access area at the east end of Benedict was referred to as First Beach; and the access at the east end of Ethel was called Second Beach. The shoreline between First and Second Beach was fairly muddy with rocks. You had to wade out into the lake if you wanted to walk from First to Second Beach along the shore. It was easier to use Third Avenue. However, shoreline from Second Beach all the way south to Willow Island was a beautiful expanse of sand. Second Beach was the more popular beach.

ISABEL AND GRACE WITH RON AND ALLAN AT FIRST BEACH

In the photo of Isabel and Grace standing with Ron and Allan (circa 1946), the view is from First Beach looking north towards Gimli. In the background you can see a wooden breakwater consisting of massive telephone-type poles drilled into the sand and bolted together. This breakwater structure remained well into the mid 1950’s. As kids, we would swim out, climb up the posts and dive into the water. We also found the remains of an old stone fireplace that was underwater just to the south of that breakwater. Obviously, previous to 1945, there must have been cottages further east on Benedict; out into what is now the lake.

In the early years, before Jean and Cec French (who owned Galway Bay located directly east of Dorrery Lodge) allowed Bud Harman to park his 16′ trailer on their lot, we would rent various places around the Stephen compound for the entire summer. One such place was the Boys Veranda attached to the east side of Dorrery Lodge.

The old Dorrery Lodge, while it was home to Mom and Pop Stephen and their seven children, had three verandas. The one on the West side was the main entrance to the Lodge, sort of a storage area, taking you directly into the kitchen. The one on the East side which had a separate outside entrance but no direct access to the main cottage was called the Boys veranda. The one on the North side which had no external access and was connected to the main cottage was called the Girls veranda.

The Boys veranda was about 8′ wide and maybe 24′ long. Sort of like a bowling lane with a door at the south end and an internal partition at the north end to form a ‘bedroom’. As was the custom back then, the partitions were about 7′ feet high, not to the ceiling; and the internal “door” was a curtain, on a rod, drawn across the opening. The entire outside wall had screened windows; but I don’t recall there being any glass. There was an ice box and a hot plate; a davenport that converted to a bed, and a table with chairs in the main section. The back room had a bed with a dresser. An old framed picture of Dogs Playing Poker was hung on the wall.

There was no running water. Drinking water was obtained from the artesian well that had been outfitted with a pump handle, located at the corner of Hansson and Third. The water was very cold and contained so much iron that the rocks around the well were orange in colour. The water tasted like blood. A daily chore was to get a pail of ‘drinking’ water. Tea made with this water not only had an interesting taste; but it left a scum-like residue in the cups.

This well water was too ‘hard’ for washing; it was impossible to produce a soapy lather. At each cottage, there were huge rain barrels, connected to the eave troughs. These collected the ‘soft’ water that was used for washing clothes, dishes and your hands. Although there were screen tops on these rain barrels, the water that was collected always looked a little sketchy; especially during fish fly season.

The toilet was the Stephen’s outhouse that was located over by their metal shed close to the chicken coop and vegetable garden. Mom Stephen collected eggs daily, and Pop Stephen would periodically decapitate a hen. There was a foot pedal style grindstone kept in the shed; used to sharpen knives and axes.

Another rental place was the Nook. This was an original version of the tiny house. Maybe it was 12′ by 12′; complete with a separate bedroom, a kitchen and a convertible couch; suitable for a family of four. Cannot recall experiencing any crowding or hardship. Obviously, as kids, we only slept, and ate breakfast and supper there. Otherwise we were outside.

On rainy days we’d be in someone’s veranda that was large enough to fit 5 or 6 kids. Jean and Cec French at Galway Bay had the best veranda; complete with a table and benches that could seat whoever showed up.

Ice was delivered, door to door, by a local vendor using a wagon. The icehouse itself was located on South Colonization Road across from Stan’s store. Periodically, one of the local fishermen would come by selling fillets of fresh pickerel.

Small wagons were a vital mode of transportation. There were used to haul water, to transport kids to the beach, to haul beach blankets and food stuffs to the lake. Everyone had a wagon.

Ron and Allan, being the same age, hung around together every summer for over a decade. We crawled through the icehouse that was located next to the fish processing plant in Gimli harbour close to where the Museum and Yacht Club are located today. Not the wisest thing to do; climbing to the top of blocks of slippery ice, covered in straw that hid the crevasses into which one could fall and never be heard from again.

We explored the Parrish and Heimbecker grain elevator; examining the weights, scales and grates. Once we climbed an inside ladder to the top of the elevator in order to look out of the small window that was up there. The wooden ladder went straight up for a very long way, through an unlit shaft. Some of the rungs were missing, so periodically you had to take an extra long step to continue. Once at the top, we convinced ourselves that we could see the water tower at Winnipeg Beach. But I doubt that we saw much past Willow Island. Climbing down was a bit scary; we only did that once.

Our Granddad Murphy was an engineer on the CPR. Sometimes he would be on the run to Riverton. On those occasions all the cousins would go to the train station to watch the big steam locomotive pull in with Granddad in the cab. Once the passengers and freight were off, we were allowed to board the coaches for the 200 yard ride to the water tank. Once filled with water, the engine would reverse to the station; and we’d get off.

A few of the older cousins were smuggled (one per trip) into the cab to ride with Granddad from Gimli to Riverton. That was a memorable experience: the distinctive smell of steam and coal and oily rags, watching the fireman open the firebox and shovelling coal into the roaring flames, viewing the many gauges and hearing the stream whistle blast whenever a crossroad occurred. The parents of which ever grandchild selected for the trip would drive to Riverton to collect the kid.

ALLAN, RICK, RON, IN THE BACKYARD OF THE BALTIMORE, CIRCA 1953

Rick, although a couple of years younger, would often tag along with Ron and Allan on these adventures. One time we walked the CPR tracks from Gimli to Winnipeg Beach with the hope of getting a day’s employment at the Boardwalk. We sat under the shallow trestle at Willow Creek as a train went over; convinced that the whole structure, which was only 3 feet above our heads, was about to collapse.

Never did get any work. The only offer was from the pony-ride guy who always set up next to the wooden rollercoaster. If we agreed to lead ponies around for 3 or 4 hours, we’d get a free ride at the end of the day. We declined.

In the late 50s, in the quiet of a summer’s evening you could hear the howling of what we thought were wolves. One day, the three of us decided we would check this out. Cutting through the bush, we snuck up on what was the back end of Gilley’s mink ranch. In addition to rows of cages containing vicious looking mink that were running hysterically around in their pens, were about eight very large husky-like dogs. These dogs were used in the winter to pull the sleds involved in ice fishing. It was the dogs that were doing the howling. The dogs looked as mean as the mink. Each dog was tied to a fairly flimsy sapling. Once they saw us, their lunges bent the trees to near breaking. We didn’t stay there very long.

The Icelandic Festival was always a big event. We’d go to the parade which involved many groups of Shriners. On average, they were a much younger group back then. Often, over that weekend, some of these Shriners, who were friends of our Aunts and Uncles would visit the Stephen compound.

But it was the races that interested us most. In the mid to late 1950s, there were cash prizes for 1st, 2nd and 3rd. Not a lot of money, but enough to acquire a stash of candy. You actually had to ‘register’ to enter a particular race. It was our mistaken belief that you had to be Icelandic to register. So we added ‘son’ to our last names.

It was customary to walk into Gimli using 3rd Ave, passing by the Arnason Cabins located on the lake at Colville. Here you could get on the stone wall walkway that took you almost to the Betel Nursing Home. The original version of this retaining wall was dramatically more narrow than what exists today. The main pier was much shorter then; with a lighthouse at the end. The Goldfield and Keenora would tie up to the main pier; while the fishing fleet boats were lashed 2 – 3 deep on the southern pier.

For a couple of years, in the late 1950s, there was a military rescue boat moored between the fishing boats on the southern pier. Only rarely did we actually see any crew on this boat. A few times we did get to speak with them; but they were pretty tight lipped. We did learn that they were there in case any T33 training planes from the Gimli airbase had to ditch into the lake. Maybe twice we saw that rescue ship race out of the harbour. But we never heard any news reports concerning aircraft accidents.

The gear on the rescue boat was quite unique; stretchers made of mesh; long handled gaffs; various floatation devices. A crew member did tell us that some pilots, particularly those from the Middle East, when flying in clouds or without a visible horizon, sometimes experience a condition such that they believe that they are flying upside down, when really they are not. So when they execute the manoeuvre of pulling up; they are actually going down and crashing into the lake.

The sand bars at Second Beach were spectacular. There were always at least two; one about 20′ off shore and another maybe 60′ off shore. You could wade to the first one. But you’d have to swim to the second one. Once you reached it, you would be standing in water often below your waist. It was always a strange sight to see someone so far out walking through the water.

The exact location and depth of the sandbars constantly changed, probably due to changes in the wind direction. Then there was the mystical third sand bar. It would be at least 100′ or more out there; if it was there at all. Only the really good swimmers would search for this elusive sandbar.

Often we would walk to Willow Island along the expansive sandy beach, which at times was over 100 feet wide. Eventually you’d reach the shallow channel that separated the beach from the island. The depth was usually less than 5 feet. So even if you weren’t in swim gear, you could strip off your clothes and hold them in a bundle over your head as you went across; commando style.

The lake side of the island was more rugged than the sandy beach. It was covered with bushes and rocks making the walk more difficult. About a mile along, there was the main channel that connected the lake to the marshy western area. This channel was very wide, very deep and had a significant current. There was no way to cross this.

When the lake water was out, you could access Second Beach with a car and drive for miles towards Willow Island. In the late 1950s older teenagers, or cadets from the Gimli airbase would take their cars down the beach to party. Later in the afternoon they’d drive back through a beach crowded with kids and supervising adults. These incidents never turned out well.

There were occasions when the beachgoers would dig fairly deep trenches across the beach, bury logs that protruded about eighteen inches out of the sand and move substantial rocks onto the beach. The returning party goers would run into this obstacle course. There were reports of some cars losing their oilpans.

Our Auntie Jean French was particularly upset with this situation. The safety of children was at stake. Somehow the Winnipeg Free Press (maybe the Tribune) heard about this, interviewed Jean and wrote an article. The headlines were something like ‘Little Peyton Place at South Beach Gimli‘. The Peyton Place reference was to a then current movie that was based on a rather (for its time) racy pocket novel. The story made it into other media outlets. Needless to say, it caused quite a stir in the otherwise sleepy ambiance of South Beach.

Sometime in the early to mid 1960’s, George Stephen, Gordon Harley and Bud Harman purchased an acre of land immediately south of the Stephen compound: Dorrery Lodge. They divided it into four quarter acre lots, which sat as idle bush for a number of years. Between 1975 and 1978, Allan and Douglas Stephen built a new cottage for their parents to replace their existing cottage: the Baltimore. Bud Harman, having cleared his quarter acre (at the southwest corner of Benedict and Anna) purchased the old cottage and had it moved to the site.

PICTURES OF BALTIMORE BEING MOVED

Bud and Isabel Harman, for the first time in over 20 years, now had their own cottage. This cottage was enlarged with an addition that included an indoor bathroom, another bedroom, living room and outdoor deck. This relocated and now expanded cottage was not given a real name. However, periodically, Bud would hang out a beautifully carved sign (prepared by his grandson Trevor Harman) that simply said Bugger Off.

Bud with his sign

This is the end of PART ONE; PART TWO has yet to be written.

Annual Murphy Family Baseball Tournament

Submitted by Ron Harman and Kathleen Coe, December 2020
(One of a series of articles about the history of South Beach and its families)

In South Beach, every summer since 1984, with just a couple of exceptions, members of the Murphy family have held an annual baseball game; culminating with the presentation of the Doris Murphy Summertime Baseball Trophy. For better than 35 years, the Murphy family has engaged in this annual ritual. 

Recently the question was asked: how did this event, which has lasted for decades, get started and what keeps it going. 

Eileen Pennycook, Fran Thompson, Isabel Harman, Stan Murphy, Jean French, and Grace Stephen

Below is an attempt to answer that question. But to do so, one must provide some background on not only the game, and why is it held in Gimli,* but of the person named on the trophy; Doris Murphy. This preamble may not seem to address the baseball game, but it is essential to understanding the significance of the game.

Walter and Catherine Medgett, the adoptive parents of Doris Alma, lived in England. Prior to WWI they moved, with their daughter to Souris, Manitoba. There they ran a boarding house. Residing in that boarding house was James Cecil Murphy, who had come to Canada from Ireland and was working with the Canadian Pacific Railroad. In 1916 Doris married James to become Doris Murphy; the future matriarch of the Murphy family. 

Doris Murphy and her grandchildren in 1962
L to R Back Row: Bryan Thompson, Ron Harman, Rick Harman, Shirley French holding Randy French, Allan Stephen holding Moira Pennycook
Middle Row: David Pennycook, Douglas Stephen, Patty French, Jim Thompson, Stirling Pennycook, Joan Thompson, Sherilyn Murphy
Front Row: Kathleen Pennycook, Marilyn French, Stanley Murphy, Doris Murphy holding Christopher Pennycook, Margaret Pennycook, Phyllis Murphy

Walter Medgett was ex-Royal Navy and had enlisted in the Canadian Naval Reserve; along with his new son-in-law James Murphy. Both were subsequently assigned to the naval port of Halifax; Walter on the Nairobi and James on a mine sweeper. Going with them to Halifax were Catherine Medgett, Doris Murphy and Doris’s infant son Stan. In the Halifax Explosion of December 1917, the men were on their ships and both survived. However, the blast killed Mrs. Medgett and Doris lost an eye as a result of flying glass.

Following the war, they returned to Souris where the family grew with the arrival of Grace, Isabel, Frances, the twins Jean and Jim and lastly Eileen. After moving to Winnipeg around 1937, the Murphy family connected with the family of John and Jean Stephen, who also had seven children: five boys and two girls. A boy and girl from each family inter-married: Stan Murphy to Jessie Stephen and George Stephen to Grace Murphy. 

L to R: Doris Murphy, Eileen Pennycook, James Murphy, Grace Stephen, Jean French, Fran Thompson, Stan Murphy, Isabel Harman, Jim Murphy

John and Jean Stephen, referred to by everyone as Mom and Pop Stephen, had a place at South Beach: Dorrery Lodge. This became the central summer place for both families. Over time, six of the seven children of Doris Murphy acquired land and built cottages all around the Stephen compound. Stan and Jessie had two cottages directly across Benedict from Dorrery Lodge. Every year, Doris Murphy would spend her entire summer in one of these. Grace and George had their cottage, the Baltimore, on Hansson, just a few lots west of Evan’s Store. Jean Murphy who married Cec French had a place directly east of Dorrery Lodge called Galway Bay. Isabel Murphy married Bud Harman and for years they rented The Nook and the boy’s Veranda from Pop Stephen. Later the Harmans had a 16 foot travel trailer that the French’s graciously allowed them to park at Galway Bay. The Harmans eventually acquired a lot directly west of the Stephen property at what is now the SW corner of Benedict and Anna, and built a place in 1975. Francis Murphy married Ernie Thompson and they bought a place on Benedict, adjacent to Stan and Jessie’s lots, and directly across from Galway Bay. Eileen Murphy married Rod Pennycook and they built a cottage on the corner of Ethel and Anna, immediately south of the Stephen compound.

Except for Jim Murphy, who, in 1967, had moved to Alberta and then to BC, all of Doris’s children had summer places within a few hundred yards of one another, essentially surrounding the Stephen compound. Grace had two sons as did Isabel. Jean had four children, Jim and his wife Sharon (nee Tighe) had five, Frances had three and Eileen had six. Spending summers growing up in this family environment was quite unique. Everyone was either your cousin, an uncle or an aunt. It was the ideal set up for young children; lots of freedom, open spaces, sandy beaches, pounding surf, and a ton of playmates. In those days, the vacation period wasn’t just a couple of weeks. Families (consisting of the moms and their children while the dads commuted to work) stayed for the entire summer; 7 – 8 weeks. Every day, for a couple of months, you saw the same people. As this cohort of “cousins” grew up, the activities changed but the connections remained. 

Even when the “cousins” themselves married and moved away, there was a strong pull to return to this area. If you had moved away, and you wanted to see most of your relatives ‘in one fell swoop’ – just go to South Beach, preferably during the Icelandic Festival, and they’d all be there; from Vancouver, Calgary, Toronto and all parts of Winnipeg.

With that lengthy preamble, let’s talk baseball. 

There was always some form of baseball being played even back in the early 1950s. Doris’s children and their spouses, whom we’ll refer to as the Aunts and Uncles, played a lot of horseshoes. From the mid 1940s to the late 1960s horseshoes were the prime venue. So many pairs, complicated double knock out schedules, with tournaments lasting days, and sometimes so late into the summer night that cars had to be driven onto the lawn of Dorrery Lodge so that their headlights could provide light onto the sand pits. 

Baseball was more of a ‘cousins’ sport. The kids from a couple of families could link up and you’d have enough bodies to form a couple of teams. Initially games happened on the grounds of Dorrery Lodge. But as the players got bigger, more room was needed. For a time we played on the grounds of the school that was close to the present Dr. George Johnson Middle School. As the popularity of the annual Icelandic Festival increased over the years, parking anywhere near the park was problematic. Around the late 80’s or early 90’s the baseball venue moved to the Gimli High School grounds.

As the cousins got older, they’d invite their city friends to the lake for the day or the weekend. Soon these folks became involved in the baseball game. Not always with good results. The game morphed from a family affair into a more competitive event. 

Doris Murphy, our grandmother, died in March 1983, at the age of 85. Our grandfather, James Murphy, had died in 1957, at the age of 62. Most of the cousins weren’t even born when James died, and those that were around were really too young to remember him. It was Doris that they knew. She was at her cottage every summer as they were growing up. Doris was the head of the Murphy family. At the time of her death Doris had 22 grandchildren and 25 great grandchildren. 

Doris at Jesta

Her death had an impact on many people. During the summer of 1983, while the families gathered for the Gimli August long weekend, usually around a crackling bonfire with sufficient adult beverages, there was talk of Grandma Murphy and that maybe we should do something to honour her memory. That “something” would have to be something that all the families could get behind, and participate in, regardless of age, and of course it would have to happen right here, in Gimli, preferably on the August Long Weekend. And thus the notion of reviving a family baseball game was hatched. 

A trophy was commissioned; entitled the Doris Murphy Summertime Baseball Trophy. The word Summertime was included because, for most of us, that was when we’d see Grandma. 

Rules were created to ensure that the baseball game would be, exclusively, a family affair. Copies of the rules were sent to all the families, with the plan to have the inaugural game(s) on the August Long Weekend of 1984.

There are copies of these Original Rules still around, stuck in the bottom of cottage drawers. Printed on two sides of green card stock, they make for interesting reading. But a few of the highlights are;

Rule 1: the game follows Slow Pitch rules – it was felt that slow pitch enabled virtually everyone to have a chance at hitting the ball.

Rule 2: Eligibility to participate was key. You had to be family. Participants had to be direct descendants of Doris Murphy or married to a direct descendant of Doris Murphy. And the player must be at least 9 years of age and preferably older.

This Eligibility rule may seem straightforward; but it wasn’t. As we progressed into the 21th century, the definition of marriage was up for discussion. Unfortunately, the original rules did not have any dispute resolution mechanism.  Also, the age of 9 can cause problems since some the great grandchildren are playing community league baseball well before the age of 9. 

Ron confesses that as the author of the original rules, the initial age limit was set at 10. A nice round number. When reading the rules to his own children, before he sent the rules to the other families, his daughter Christen said that the age rule had to be revised – to 9. She reminded him that she would not be turning 10 until August 26; which is after the Long Weekend. The age limit was revised.

Rule 6: The original rules had a section called the Average Age Advantage. It was specifically included so that there was a distinct advantage if you had members on your team that were over the age of 35. The older they were then 35, the greater number of points your team collected. And these points could be converted into “runs”. 

The night before the baseball game teams would try to recruit those aunts and uncles who were old, but still nimble enough to play. George Stephen was a much sought after player, well into his 70s.

In practice, the Average Age Advantage rule was never seriously applied. But it served its purpose. In the early years of the of the revised games, and to this day, there are seniors playing alongside their grandchildren.

Also, as part of Rule 1, there was a statement concerning the umpire’s rulings. It stated that these rulings shall be final regardless of how strange the umpire’s calls may be. This rule was specifically included to recognize Cec French. Uncle Cec had acted as the umpire for most of the past ball games. As in any quasi competitive situation, controversies can arise and the Umpire has to make a ruling. We were never sure if Cec made these controversial calls because he had completely missed the play, if he wanted to inject some humour or was trying to ‘level’ the playing field. The younger the player, the more favourable the call.

The actual mechanics of the game are very simple. All the eligible players, those who actually want to play, are identified, and assigned to one of two teams. There is an attempt to keep family members together, but not strictly. Given the wide variations in skill levels (remember some of these people are professional athletes and some actually play competitive baseball, while other have never swung a bat) consideration is taken to provide some sense of ‘equality’. Each team may have from 12 to 14+ players. In each inning, the entire team gets to bat; no such thing as three outs. There are three innings. Score sheets are kept. Post game team photos are taken. Usually there are as many spectators as players. The whole event probably lasts 2 1/2 hours.

In 2016, the rules were revised. Printed on two sides of yellow card stock. Now there is an overseeing Senate, consisting of a representative from each original family, to handle interpretation issues and procedural matters. The Average Age Advantage rule is simplified; but still rewards those teams who have player who are seniors. 

But Rule 10, the last rule, remains unchanged.

Rule 10: This rule involves the responsibilities of the winning team. They must get the plaque made and affixed to the trophy. They must keep the trophy safe and make it available for presentation the next year. And here is the big one. The winning team must provide suitable post game refreshments for the other team.

This last rule has morphed into a gigantic BBQ. It takes weeks to plan, and hosts not only the players but the spectators and other family members as well. It’s a massive family affair that involves rehashing any embarrassing on field performances, testing one’s memory concerning the names of an ever increasing number of young relatives, and simply catching up on events that have transpired over the past year. This family get-together lasts longer than the actual game.

The senior members of the family are recruited to identify the game’s MVP. Each player signs a new softball, and this signed baseball is presented to the MVP. There are more than a few of these prized keepsakes to be found, safely tucked away. 

Finally, as the gathering come to a close, there is the presentation of the Doris Murphy Summertime Baseball Trophy; usually followed by a gracious but light-hearted acceptance speech.

From 1984 to the present, there have been 32 games with 3 postponements. One cancellation occurred during a particularly wet weekend (2001) when the playing field was underwater. Another, in 2012, when a medical emergency forced an entire family to withdraw. The most recent cancellation was the extremely hot and humid summer of 2019 when nobody wanted to be out in the sun, let alone play baseball. Although the games were cancelled, the family BBQs were held.

As you have gathered by now, the Doris Murphy Summertime Baseball event was never really about baseball. It was the perfect opportunity to pay respect to a very special lady and provide a means of staying connected with a special family.

*See Stephen Family and Pennycook Family posts for expanded histories.

Pennycook Family in South Beach

Submitted by Kathleen Coe, November 2020
(One of a series of articles about the history of South Beach and its families)

Eileen Murphy was 16 years old when she went to visit her older sister Grace and husband George Stephen in Gimli. They invited her to their cottage on Hansson Avenue near South Colonization Road. The area was better known then as South Beach. To her surprise, Eileen’s boyfriend Rod Pennycook took the train to Winnipeg Beach and then walked 10 miles to Gimli to see her! Is it any wonder they were married 5 years later (1951) and the saga started. 

Eileen and Rod’s Gimli story started by first renting the veranda of a cottage from Mr & Mrs John Stephen at Dorrery Lodge on Benedict Avenue (SE corner of Anna).*

They didn’t have a fridge, only an ice box. But Eileen’s dad, Jim Murphy, was an engineer for the CPR and quite often operated the train that ran through Gimli to Riverton. He would throw off a huge slab of ice and she would fetch it in a wagon to take home. It lasted for weeks in the ice box. (And sometimes he would sneak the grandkids into the train cab too.)

The Nook in the background

As the Pennycook family grew they rented the following cottages between 1952 & 1960:
1st: The Nook was owned by Art Stephen and located on the Stephen compound. Eileen is sure it was the smallest cottage in the world. Bud Harman used to say, you could spit from the front door through to the back of the cottage.
2nd: For two summers they rented Jim Stephen’s place also on the Stephen property, a cottage named Rothiemay.
3rd: Stachow’s Sundown on the NW corner of Third Ave and Benedict.
4th: Older sister Frances & Ernie Thompson’s cottage on Benedict (27 Benedict) for a couple of years.
5th: The Vockerath cottage (31 Benedict) was the longest they stayed until they built their own. 

The Nook

In 1960 Rod and Eileen built their cottage on the southeast corner of Ethel and Anna. They were fortunate to have Rod’s father arrange a package deal through his employer – The Empire Sash & Door, with a top builder and excellent materials. When the cottage was finished it was a masterpiece.

Back in the day families traditionally named their cottages, with an appropriate plaque proudly displayed on the front. Sometimes these names were family references or familiar places in the ‘old country’. The Pennycook’s named theirs The 7 Pennys. But when Chris was born they changed it to The 8 Pennys. Mrs. Stephen used to say she was waiting for the “thin dime”.

Rod came to the cottage every weekend and sometimes on Wednesdays. Eileen never had a car for 12 years. Thank goodness for friends and the Gimli Hospital, which was used frequently. Dr. George Johnson became their “summer family doctor”.

For quite a while The Eight Pennys was painted coral. It would be many years before they had electricity, running water and a bathroom. They also didn’t have a telephone, television or computer.

Washing diapers and clothes was a problem. They saved all the rain water for laundry and a separate tub for the diapers, all done by hand and hung on the clothesline.

The drinking water was hauled up by pailful from the artesian well pump at the end of the road near the beach. (It’s still there to this day). Eileen’s nephew, Allan Stephen worked for the city waterworks and tested it regularly thus assuming that it was excellent drinking water.

Nobody liked using an outhouse, especially Margaret. One day they discovered a dead skunk down the hole. Doug Hicks happened to drop in, so Eileen asked him how to get rid of it. “Oh! Eileen, don’t worry, it will get bigger and bigger and bigger and then blow up. I only hope you are not in there when it happens.” She immediately told Rod, “We have to build a new outhouse.” With that Doug turned around to go home laughing all the way. Like most cottagers they eventually had a holding tank installed, emptied by the “Honey Man”.

Eileen and Rod’s saga is set in the larger context of the Murphy and Stephen clan, many of whom had property in South Beach as well. And particularly magnified because her older siblings, Stanley and Grace, both married Stephens! See this article for more on that!

Murphy Family Children
Stanley Murphy m. Jessie Stephen
Grace m. George Stephen (Allan, Douglas)
Isabel m. Reginald Harman (Ron, Rick) 
Frances m. Ernest Thompson (Bryan, Jim, Joan)
Twin Jean m. Cecil French (Shirley, Patti, Marilyn, Randy)
Twin Jim Murphy m. Sharon Tighe (Sherilyn, Stanley, Phyllis, Terry, Lorae)
Eileen m. Roderick Pennycook (Stirling, David, Kathleen, Margaret, Moira, Christopher)

Murphy Family
Seated L to R: Stan Murphy, Doris Murphy, James Murphy, Grace Stephen,
Back Row L to R: Jean French, Isabel Harman, Jimmy Murphy, Frances Thompson, Eileen Pennycook

Eileen’s oldest brother, Stan Murphy and his wife Jessie Stephen were married in Vancouver in 1942. Stan’s war service was from 1939 – 1945. He started as seaman in the Reserve in 1939 and finished as Lt. C.M.D.R. He was employed by Imperial Optical and was recognized for his managerial ability and was delegated to open branches in Barbados. After 2 years he opened branches in Jamaica as well and served there for 27 years then moved to Toronto and retired to Winnipeg. Shortly after the war he bought two veterans units at an auction at the University of Manitoba. He had them sent to Gimli and placed them on Benedict St across from Dorrery Lodge; one for them and one for Grandma Murphy. The two little cottages were named Jesta (a combination of Jessie and Stan) and Monymusk (pertaining to a place in Scotland or maybe Jamaica). Eileen’s older sister Jean & her husband Cecil French used one of these little cottages when the Murphy’s lived in Jamaica. Jean and Cecil also owned Galway Bay cottage (28 Benedict).

Galway Bay (28 Benedict) cottage in background
Doris Murphy and her grandchildren in 1962
L to R Back Row: Bryan Thompson, Ron Harman, Rick Harman, Shirley French holding Randy French, Allan Stephen holding Moira Pennycook
Middle Row: David Pennycook, Douglas Stephen, Patty French, Jim Thompson, Stirling Pennycook, Joan Thompson, Sherilyn Murphy
Front Row: Kathleen Pennycook, Marilyn French, Stanley Murphy, Doris Murphy holding Christopher Pennycook, Margaret Pennycook, Phyllis Murphy
Doris Murphy at Jesta
The Three Rods: Rod Jr, Rod Sr, & Rod Stirling, 1979

Like most families at the time, the Pennycooks went to the cottage from July 1st to September 1st. The kids really enjoyed the summer. As long as the weather was good, they went to the beach everyday.

Kathleen in 1959

The women would sit in lawn chairs sipping tea and watching their little darlings. As a regular ritual Eileen would go up to the cottage, as she was the closest, to make the pot of tea and fetch some goodies. Sisters Jean, Grace, and Marg Hicks would look after the kids in her absence. Everyone enjoyed playing with their cousins and friends.

In the evenings and days of bad weather they played games, did puzzles, or read books. They never had a TV at the cottage and they never seemed to mind. They played a lot of card games. (Regarding the weekend adult card games, they told Doug Hicks that Rod would have retired earlier if Doug hadn’t won all their money.)

Eileen and Rod, ca. 1970

Everyone is used to the fish flies but Eileen remembers the “Year of the Frogs”. In 1972 there were thousands of them. The roads were turned to green and looked like a wavy river as far as the eye could see. Their appearance was a mystery and they disappeared after the summer ended. Also a mystery.

Spring raking, Kathleen and Eileen

Everyone went to the Gimli movie theatre on Saturday nights. 15 cents for kids and 25 cents for Adults. They still remember the film called The Hallelujah Trail, a 1965 American Western mockumentary spoof, the longest and stupidest movie any of them had ever seen. Kathleen lucked out. She had misbehaved so had to stay home and was fortunate not to have to suffer through it.

The children all learned to swim through the Red Cross program in Gimli. Red Cross distributed information at the beginning of the summer on the program by flyers. Instruction was given to 5 to 12 year olds at the Gimli Pier for Beginners, Juniors, Intermediates and Life Saving Bronze. The youngest kids were taught on the beach. The older ones were on the piers, a scary experience for them, when they had to jump or dive off. Stirling still has all his badges to this day. 

In 1982 the Pennycook’s bought the cottage next door on the east side from the Van family. A platform deck between the two cottages was built shortly thereafter and one of the highlights of the year began – the entertainment, singing and dancing with homemade dresses and costumes by the kids under Eileen’s son-in-law Ken Coe’s direction. It grew over time so that all the neighbours in South Beach attended. When Eileen expressed her concern as to the quality of the performances Ken told her not to worry – he was “Keeper of the HOOK”.

Pennycook ‘stage’

Some of the highlight star performances were:
Craig Stephen – Michael Jackson, Moon Walk
Brynn Harman – These Boots Were Made For Walking
Chris Trubyk – Sports Announcer
Shawn Coe – Burn in Hell & Splish Splash I was Taking a Bath
8 adults Square Dancing – led by George & Grace Stephen 

Once the grandkids arrived the summer began with a ritual flag raising. Eileen would have a cake made up at the Central Bakery (Centre Street, Gimli) decorated with the Canadian Flag. All the neighbours including the Sobkowichs, Woods, Wards and Hicks, would come over and sing O Canada whilst Kathleen and Ken’s son Scott Coe hoisted the flag up the pole in front of the cottage. Once the flag flew everyone knew beach time had started in earnest.

Christopher’s son, Randy singing O Canada
Neighbours gather for the flag raising
1990
Watching from the road
Canada Day 1993
Pennycook grandchildren on trampoline, 1997
Eileen & Rod’s grandchildren, 2016

Eileen often wondered why they left their new home in Winnipeg with all the necessary appliances but as it turned out Gimli was where they were most fortunate to be in the summer. Quite often Grandad and Grandma Pennycook, along with Rod’s sister Moira & Sam Malegus visited them on weekends. Golfing buddies from St. Charles and curling friends from the city were regular visitors. They always attended the parades and played golf.

L to R: Kathleen Coe, Margaret Daniel, David Pennycook, Eileen Pennycook, Rod Pennycook, Moira Malegus, Chris Pennycook, Moira Farrer, Stirling Pennycook in 2017
2017 Family Reunion
Annual Murphy Family baseball game**

Eileen celebrated her 90th birthday on July 18, 2020. She smiles as she says “we were so thankful for the many blessings South Beach offered.”

Eileen & Rod’s Children, Palm Springs, Christmas 2019
L to R: Chris, Moira, Margaret, Kathleen, David and Stirling

Daughter Kathleen and husband Ken Coe took over The Eight Pennys (24 Ethel) in 2003. At her retirement in 2013 Ken turned it into their permanent home.

Coe Residence, 2020

Edited by Ev Ward de Roo

*See additional Stephen family history here.

**The full history of the Annual Doris Murphy Summer Baseball tournament is here.